lol! i just turned on the waterworks. my dad was like 'what can i dooo? they are being unreasonable!' and i was like, 'your the girl's father dammit! do your job!'. the other half was getting pretty frustrated too. he was like 'we might as well run away and get married if this is all the respect they want to give our union'. inshallah it'll work out okay in the end. :)
i'll say it again, good for you!!! :)
khair, the point is.....as long as their happy on their shadi, o hell who cares about ur opinion :p ....even if i look like a churail and i look like im gonna eat do teen bache alive, if my hubby thinks i look good, n if i think i look good...i think it's fine by me.
xactly! believe me i've had my "Look" dissed so many ways (indirectly, like "too heavy jewelery/nosering/etc is ugly etc"), but.. i think i looked nice. so who cares what ppl say now.
xactly! believe me i've had my "Look" dissed so many ways (indirectly, like "too heavy jewelery/nosering/etc is ugly etc"), but.. i think i looked nice. so who cares what ppl say now.
:)
yup. i wish you didn't have to hear any of that though, no one should have to, people should keep that stuff to themselves. i really dislike the attitude of a bride 'should look like this or that', a bride should look however she feels happy and comfortable! it's different if someone is asking for advice.
i asked my fiancé how he wants to see me on our wedding day, so i'm doing what makes us happy!
awww, well that’s good then mash’Allah. 
good luck
awww lol, sweet. insh’Allah im sure everything will go smoothly with u lot 
do keep us posted 
Re: BRIDAL PICS.
Stoppit well it wasn’t directly or presonal…but u know how someone says “i hate the heavy mehndi, it looks ugly, huge sets look ugly and paindu, and big noserings look ugly” etc…they’re stating their personal preferences and all the right to do so…i had all that and i think i looked great 
and plus any “advice” is really useless now after hte occasion has taken place… I had absolutely ZERO say in what i could wear or not wear etc…im lucky that hwat i got was nice
ur not alone my friend, i think it’s very common in us desis ke moonh chakk ke bride/bride-to-be ki bistee kar do.
i really honestly thhink they’re just being piss offs cuz they’re freaking jealous since their days are gone and cuz they’re not gettin that much of attention 
well buzz off ur days are gone…
EXACTLY!!! like let them be happy for atleast that day, phir jo bukwas karni hai bharaas nikaalni hai nikaal lena 
it’s another thing ur trying to help but when ur the only person who thinks something is wrong with the bride compared to everyone else, then ur just BS’ing and jealous NOT helping
kasmain these ppl are so obnoxious. you looked beautiful sara and i loved ur jewelry and clothes mash’Allah. screw everyone else
P.S. the wise thing to say would be, that’s nice everyone has their own preference, may be for your shadi you can wear the simple so elegent sets. or NOT cuz those days are long gone MUahahahaha 
that’s what i mean - once something has happened there is no such thing as constructive criticism! so unless someone is asking for advice on something not yet decided airing those opinions are just useless and probably hurtful.
i’m glad you were happy with what you got - sounds like you had a lovely day in the end!
ok ladies…found some more pics!
thanks hun. not long to go now really. inshallah i will have good things to tell when i come back!
Re: BRIDAL PICS.
http://www.paklinks.com/gsmedia/files/57903/sa.jpg
the couple looks soo cute :mash: i like her blue dress.
http://www.paklinks.com/gsmedia/files/57903/nk.jpg
how cute she’s wearing hijab :mash:
oh god!!
what the hell is this guy wearing!!! 
it is just plain horrible!!!
Re: BRIDAL PICS.
http://www.paklinks.com/gsmedia/files/57903/sk.jpg
im not that into blue blue. but this is nice, very simple yet pretty…looks like an engagement?
http://www.paklinks.com/gsmedia/files/57903/nk.jpg
i like this outfit too, the color and design…
a classmate got engaged a few weekends ago and she looked gorgeous..too bad i can’t post pics. 
whoa where’d you get teh 2nd and 3rd pic if you dont mind me asking…?
I know the couple.
oh god!! what the hell is this guy wearing!!! :O :| it is just plain horrible!!!
hahaaa!..
it looks like shes wearin a turtleneck..?..hmm..?..iv never seen a dulhan wearing a turtle neck b4..