i wore sleeveless on my mehendi but sadly, no one in the family was shocked lol
we’re big on sleeveless 
i’m still amused at how generally in pakistani society, sleeveless ends up being more scandalous than a teeny, tiny little sari blouse that shows the entire midriff and has a deep back to boot. if the sari is sheer, you’re definitely showing more skin than just your arms.