lol! i just turned on the waterworks. my dad was like 'what can i dooo? they are being unreasonable!' and i was like, 'your the girl's father dammit! do your job!'. the other half was getting pretty frustrated too. he was like 'we might as well run away and get married if this is all the respect they want to give our union'. inshallah it'll work out okay in the end. :)
i'll say it again, good for you!!! :)