This is one look that i want to do on my wedding day. The nath and the singhar-pati. But i am not really confident about it because i think that i won’t be able to carry it off. There’s the fact that I’ve only seen bangali aur indian brides wear this NOT a lot of Pakistani brides. Also, I have a choice between a jhoomar (which I also loveeee) and a singhar-pati, which I’ve only started liking
recently. Thing is, I want to look different from the same 'ol same 'ol stuff here. And very few brides I’ve seen singhar pati actually rocked it. I like veryyyyyy few brides with the matha-pati on and i think I’ll be able to manage. It’s just not that common here and I’m confused. 
I also want a different nath from what Ive seen here on ALL brides. My mom wore it at her wedding and she rocked it!! It was handmade and had more gold and stones fillling in the nath rather than colored beads like we have now-a-days.
I have just 1 day to look traditional and that’s my barat day. On valima, I’ll prolly wear a sari and minimal jewellery.
Sorry for long post. I think I just needed some confirmation one way or the other because I can’t decide !!!