Rukhsana, you dont have to wear a big gaudy gold set, get a nice elegant set that you will wear again and again..on future shadis and functions..
getting a huge gold set is not practical, and it doesnt look good, no matter who wears it.
you can find a lot of great looking gold sets in the range of $2500-$4000
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believe me, i have seen many brides regret wearing artificial jewelery on their wedding… 