people must take reasonable time to process what is said to them and what their partner say to them.
intentions and motives are never clear unless you can recognize true sincerity in each other’s voice.
coming close due to being understood and being understanding are virtues and gift of a pure relationship already newly made or in the making.
even in marriage, being able to reflect on
the dynamics of interactions in talks and how things are done to keep a family, must be something done individually and then collectively as well, by both partners.
the issue is: who calls and invites for a head to head eye to eye reflection and how agreebly disagreements are approached one at a time & in the context of big picture for the two people to have a content life together.
if the test is honesty that is two way, then if the relationship is founded on educated & civil caring attitude towards each other, nothing will be able to make the relationship sour.
in a mature and serious relationship, important things cannot be denied as they would be in a teen age affair. they will and must be addressed but out of care and love for each other.
in one’s own heart, people know if they are caring in reality or not.
given this, share what your thoughts on being able to give each other the space to rethink over things that you have heard from each other or said to each other?