Re: breaking ties.
Peace lady lama
If u are being treated unfairly it's ur duty to do something about it and not sit there waiting in hope for the person to stop harassing you.. This is my opinion, the word 'zulm' is simply a translation and can be looked at differently in English, Urdu and Arabic. It all depends on perception I guess.
Almighty Allah Said in Chapter 95 verse 4,5 & 6: "We have certainly created man in the best of stature; Then We return him to the lowest of the low, Except for those who believe and do righteous deeds, for they will have a reward uninterrupted".
One day I saw two dogs were fighting. One dog (defeated) layed down and another (winner) dog left and went away. Another day I saw a fight of two mens one who was defeated asking forgiveness but the another winner man not in mood to forgive him.
So isn't the Man is worst than the dog? means lowest of the low. But if the winner man forgive in other words neglect (dar-guzar) the fight even though he is able to take reveng that he did the righteous deed and there is surely a reward for him.
^Just an example to explain.
Why does zulm have to just equate to physical harm.. Have you never come across mentally destroying a person too?
Islam spread 'Peace'. I doubt if someone came across mentally destroying situation within the circule of Islam.
Peace lady lama
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If u are being treated unfairly it's ur duty to do something about it and not sit there waiting in hope for the person to stop harassing you.. This is my opinion, the word 'zulm' is simply a translation and can be looked at differently in English, Urdu and Arabic. It all depends on perception I guess.
Almighty Allah Said in Chapter 95 verse 4,5 & 6: "We have certainly created man in the best of stature; Then We return him to the lowest of the low, Except for those who believe and do righteous deeds, for they will have a reward uninterrupted".
One day I saw two dogs were fighting. One dog (defeated) layed down and another (winner) dog left and went away. Another day I saw a fight of two mens one who was defeated asking forgiveness but the another winner man not in mood to forgive him.
So isn't the Man is worst than the dog? means lowest of the low. But if the winner man forgive in other words neglect (dar-guzar) the fight even though he is able to take reveng that he did the righteous deed and there is surely a reward for him.
^Just an example to explain.
Why does zulm have to just equate to physical harm.. Have you never come across mentally destroying a person too?
Islam spread 'Peace'. I doubt if someone came across mentally destroying situation within the circule of Islam.
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U are refusing to see my point. I have already mentioned keeping patient for Allah will mean she is rewarded however I don't believe she will get haraam for avoiding her sister in law provided that there is no other option and her sis in law is still creating problem.
Islam does spread peace, but there will always be people who are Muslim that will try and create trouble.
Re: breaking ties.
Peace lady lama,
No I wasn’t refusing to see your point. Your point is valid and can be seen in many circumstances. I was only showing the another very wide bright side with and example from the life of our Prophet Muhammad 
(mentioned at post #11).