This has probably been posted before but for those of you that have been in love, how do you deal with that breakup if you ever had one and do you still think about them?
For the married ones, if you were ever in love before you got married to someone else and things didn’t work out, how did you cope with it? Did your first love ever cross your mind again in your married life?
Married people told me that after you get married you forget everyone in your past because you have no choice. Is it really that easy to forget someone?
shay aint that bad lolz i guess ppl who have trawlin through ur posts r probably sick to death now lol
i guess you do think bout realtioships you been in but some u look bk fondly others not so fondly/....
desigirl786- i have got no experience in this but i feel if some1 has ever been genuinely in luv with some other person other than their spouse it must be really hard at times...but ofcourse time heals everything...
This has probably been posted before but for those of you that have been in love, how do you deal with that breakup if you ever had one and do you still think about them?
For the married ones, if you were ever in love before you got married to someone else and things didn't work out, how did you cope with it? Did your first love ever cross your mind again in your married life?
Married people told me that after you get married you forget everyone in your past because you have no choice. Is it really that easy to forget someone?
actually its not easy to forgt sumne..but surely u have no other way or choice after wedding..break ups do hurt..but always remember everything happens for a reson..personally i think..u should never luk bak and move on really...
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For the married ones, if you were ever in love before you got married to someone else and things didn't work out, how did you cope with it? Did your first love ever cross your mind again in your married life?
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How does one cope with it? Well, you cry a lot... and frustration that builds for not being able to do anything is the worst feeling you can have, DAY IN DAY OUT, potentially for the rest of your life!
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Married people told me that after you get married you forget everyone in your past because you have no choice. Is it really that easy to forget someone?
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Thats wrong. Unless you are one of those that forgets people easily or unless you are happy and enjoy the person you are with and adjust with them quickly then its impossible to forget or get over your past.
the guy that you were in love with before marriage has probably already moved on and gotten married himself. If he isn't looking to the past then why should you waste your time and precious years thinking about him.
I think people move on..perhaps it,s difficult..but then..one has to live..and if you are married..then you need to get over it..and pay attention to your spouse..!
I believe one shouldnt get into marrying someone untill they have finally made up their minds to start life anew. There should be conscious effort involved then. Otherwise, like if you believe you cant get over your past love, better remain alone.
Married people told me that after you get married you forget everyone in your past because you have no choice. Is it really that easy to forget someone?
I think you would be able to forget the past as long as you are happy
with your husband. It would depend on your relationship with him.
Anyways you don't know how your marriage might have turned out
had you been able to marry the person you loved.
I do know one thing for sure, if the break up is after a long serious affair , and there is somehow a breakup, for some instants, badi GAALIYAN nikalti hain, and in addition to that there is a wish that the other should regret the breakup any how.
…Reminds me of this Song…:(:
