Re: Brains or beauty?
Let’s say someone in your family or out of family showed interest to marry you. You know of times how they have treated their own mother sister, brother or anyone else related to them. But especially mother… incase of an outsider, a little background check through reliable sources about how they treat their own close relatives and your own assessment of their personality based on how you found them to be with you during your own personal interaction with them is good enough criteria to decide what they will be like living with you. One just have to be mentally mature, hsve an advanced level of analytical skills in reading people’s behaviours especially of those they have interacted with and must be an excellent judge of character.
Some people are so good that they scan through someone’s entire personality and habits and traits by looking at just a few of their actions or words they speak, to whom they speak. Life experience has taught them enough to know what kind of people to avoid. But some people spend a lifetime with wrong partners trying hard to understand them but still remain clueless. Those people are inept in relationships.