Originally posted by Akif: *
**The problem is partially with the system, and partially with folks who do return. Most, if not all, expect to be paid a dollar equivalent of what they were making in the US or UK. Thats unrealistic, and ridiculous. *
The problem is with the people partially, agreed. i.e people in Pakistan. I dont think people who go back look for the same compensation but similar compensation keeping the Cost of living in perspective. Which really is not a very hard thing to do in some fields.
However, there are other social and societal issues that people are just not ready for. We hear a lot about cultural shock when someone leaves the country, but there is something called reverse cultural shock, when some expat returns. And there is a lot that needs to be improved in Pakistan for many people who have lived a great portion of their lives abroad, to feel safe and to feel at ease.
*Thats not how it works. If people are not willing to take calculated risks, they will never find out what opportunities Pakistan has for them. *
It would be a good idea to dos ome survey of expats who returned, stayed or left again, as well as their kids. Maybe people do estimate calculated risks and the risks outweigh the opportunities. For some it works and for some it does not. It is much easier fort someone who just came out for a masters degree and went back to Pakistan after 2 years. this person is familiar with the system and has the network etc to be able to find opportunities and know the ins and oust of the system. On the other hand soemone who has beena broad for 25 years would have a very different situation.
*How many doctors and engineers do we have who gave up their life savings in order to migrate to the US, Canada or UK, and are now there, driving cabs, while their MBA wives work as nannies, and kids chip in with 40 hours at McDonalds? *
At the same time how many docs do you see who are loaded. or Pakistani MBAs who have come here done another MBA and are doing werll, same goes for engineers, I have spent time at Motorola, Honeywell and Lucent etc, do you have any idea how many desi engineers are working there?
for every struggling person there are many successful ones. I too know of a desi doctor who is working at a hospital lab testing blood sampes etc, basically as a lab tech, I know another doctor workign at baggage claims in an airline, and another one who lastI heard was working at a gas station. what's common among these 3 people..they did not pass their exams here, could not pass Flex or whatever the exams name is now. But they are trying..but for the same three people I noted, i know their class mates too. The guy who is baggage claim guy, his class fellow is a well known cardiologist in Chicago. the guy who was working at a gas station, half of his class from DMC is in US and all are doing very well. and the guy who is working as a labtech all of his classmates who came here are very senior in their work and some have started private practices.
Now one may wonder, these guys who are doing these odd jobs, why are they doing it, why dont they go back. Its not just a whim but they have figured that even if it takes them soem time to pass the exams and all, that they will have a better quality of life here. as far as the labtech goes, according to him, even being a lab tech here for him is a better standard of life .
*Theyd gladly do that in the west, but as they say in urdu, doing all that in Pakistan, un ki matti paleed hoti hai. *
Right some peopel take on odd jobs while waiting for better opportunities. However the cultural taboos associated with doing odd jobs in pakistan are much different.
*Its our attitudes too, not just the system. People need to start taking responsibilities for their own lives, rather than blame everything on the system. *
and in many cases taking responsibility of their own lives does include blaming the system because there are fewer opportunities, more hassle and the crooked nature of what goes on there is especially tough for expast who have lived their lives abroad.
I know people who have gone back and and ben successful. My dad returned to Pak after being overseas for over 30 years and was very successful in corporate world working as the CEO for a major Pakistani company. But somethings did take their toll when he shalved his plans to start his own factories for PVC pips and what nots due to the type of hassle as well as corruption he began to face. I know a gentleman who went back and set up a hospital etc, but after being robbed a few times and then a kidnap, he bailed.
Most expats that return to Pakistan are thise who were in the middle east because eventually they ahve to..they cant be citizens there so thats a temporary place. I have not seen too many Expats from the west heading back. Even for the middleaast expats, I have noticed many either leave for the west in a few years, or atleast their kids are sent abroad with an assumption that they may not be coming back to stay.
Does Pakistan have opportunities, yes, are they increasing yes. The peopel who have lived a large part of their lives overseas, could they handle the ground reality of Pakistan.. I dunno.