Girl: I think you are a lovely person (I love the fact that you are rich), however I dont feel there is a ‘spark’ between us and do not forsee one developing.
Does Girl add : I would like to stay friends?
Or does that hurt?
Girl: I think you are a lovely person (I love the fact that you are rich), however I dont feel there is a ‘spark’ between us and do not forsee one developing.
Does Girl add : I would like to stay friends?
Or does that hurt?
Girl: I think you are a lovely person (I love the fact that you are rich), however I dont feel there is a 'spark' between us and do not forsee one developing.
Does Girl add : I would like to stay friends?
Or does that hurt?
I think the "I would like to stay friends" line would hurt anyone (boy or girl) if the individual was truly interested.
But it's better to be honest as opposed to pursuing the guy only for his wealth when you don't have any genuine romantic interest. Yes, ignorance can be bliss, but it wouldn't be fair.
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Does the girl actually want to stay frands or is she saying it coz it would seem to mean to be 'okay bye.'
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Girl does not want to say ' ok then byeee'
Its like the whole ' I'l call you later' but you know won't.
Girl: I think you are a lovely person (I love the fact that you are rich), however I dont feel there is a 'spark' between us and do not forsee one developing.
Does Girl add : I would like to stay friends?
Or does that hurt?
Why would telling someone U want to stay friends with them but you don't feel anything for them HURT them ?
I say twist the knife a lil further and add your holding out for someone better !***
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lol if I girl said I love the fact that you're rich then my feelings for her would immediately shut off and I wouldn't talk to her anymore. Regardless if she wants to take the next step forward or backwards.
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Thanks Sheyn, I think Girl likes that answer.
So Girl should end with : You deserve someone better than I, take care and good luck.
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Girl does not want to say ' ok then byeee'
Its like the whole ' I'l call you later' but you know won't.
Hmm, it hurts more to be avoided though.....even though it would definitely get the message across. It's better to be honest. You don't even have to say, "I'll call you later" if you have no intention to....and he won't be waiting around. You may not even have to say that you'd like to stay friends when you don't want a friendship either.
You could just say, "I think you're a nice guy and I truly hope that you find someone amazing soon. I don't sense mutual compatibility in the romantic sense between us. And I don't want to lead anyone on even unintentionally. I'm sorry if I've hurt you and I understand if you want space. Take care and best wishes."
^See.....now you're not requesting friendship or telling him that you'll call back, so he won't expect either. You're just telling him nicely where he stands and you're even telling him that you're okay with him wanting to maintain a distance/space.
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Girl shouldnt have to say sorry for not finding a 'spark' thats her right, just like its his right to come to the same conclusion.
That feels like she is preempting his feelings, assumiing hes going to be hurt.
In an ideal world Girl just wants him to say ' yeh, I didnt feel it either'.
Prays for an ideal world!
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^ Then omit the “sorry” part if you don’t feel comfortable with it, ![]()
I only included the sorry bit because if you’re aware that one has strong feelings for you…and when they’re not returned…it’s natural for the person to feel hurt. So, you’re apologizing…not for your lack of reciprocation (which as you stated is every girl’s right to not have feelings for someone)…but more for the heartache that would result from it.
If you’ve already found a suitable response, that’s great. :k:
Rejection is never easy for either party and I hope it goes…for lack of a better word…as smoothly as possible.
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hook him up with a hotter girl. win-win situation.
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Girl did that to the last one. Was too easy, dont think im going to find success two times in a row.
I mean, Girl isnt. :)
Has this girl taken some kind of contract to break as many heart as she can? ![]()
If i ever come across such a girl ,i’ll shoot right through her heart. . . ![]()
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screw the hurt 'part'. he's an adult and he'll get over it.
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Girl: I've thought about it a lot and I didnt feel a connection between us and dont see one developing in the future.
Boy: Ok, fine, it happens, have a nice life.
Job done!
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lol ^ ur funny
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Girl: You're really short aren't you // I want a house/a car/ A Swarvoski covered mobile and a million I love you's a day. samje?
Boy: I've got to rush. I'll Call You..
what think?
Boy’s Friends sing:
Took me ages to find a suitable version of the video! ![]()
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haha friends?
lol never happens!
delete the friends line its too cliche anyways!
Girl: I think you are a lovely person (I love the fact that you are rich), however I dont feel there is a 'spark' between us and do not forsee one developing.
Does Girl add :** I would like to stay friends?**
Or does that hurt?
BULL CRAP,