Boys should not CRY..

BoReD_iN_BrIsBaNe · January 29, 2008, 2:39pm

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cry baby

cadet018 · January 29, 2008, 2:43pm

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"Hey baby" is a movie ..
wats Cry baby ?

Hum_Hain_Lajawab · January 29, 2008, 4:13pm

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Through experience, I am of the opionion that generally, women cry more and men don't (some may be exception) but that does not mean that only women have emotions and men don't. Allah put emotions in both of them. If you read the ahadith, you will see that the sahabas used to cry after reading just few ayahs of the Quran and used to cry a lot. Other would refer to such as cry babies (Nauzu Billah) but they were firm as a rock where they needed to be and soft, when they needed to be.

This is for the Quran though. The thread starter would have to give more details about what exactly he/she is referring to (i.e. what kind of frustration).

zobia · January 29, 2008, 4:47pm

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i agree…nothing is bad in crying

well i find out crying helps me during i pray…i mean now i think lill disappointing unfortunate events of my life…and i cry.

and then i pray harder…and i think its a hadith that “ager app k makhi k sir jitna bhi ansoo ALLAH SWT k khuaf say niklay to app k gunah maaf hojatay hian”

but its soo hard…cuz you are connecting yourself with ALLAH SWT and show the pureness of ur intention

Princess_Fiona · January 29, 2008, 4:49pm

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I agree and i hate it when guys cry

Well atleast not infront of me.. Cause back home guys would have never cried and when they cry tat mean it is EXTREMELY big issue and tat was heartbreaking

Hum_Hain_Lajawab · January 29, 2008, 4:51pm

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Princess_Fiona · January 29, 2008, 4:53pm

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You cry baby.. Tumhain to larki hona chayay ta

zobia · January 29, 2008, 4:58pm

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ya one of my brother was having load of pressure when my dad had an heart attack…well my dad is fine now ALLHUMDULLAH. my other also had experienced when he his first wife died (Inna’lahe-wain in-nalehye-rajaoon).

but ya i was some thing bigg in our lives always makes one us bay-bus. otherwise my those two bro are so damn calm and cool then rest of my other sibz (including me)

Princess_Fiona · January 29, 2008, 5:01pm

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Exactly.. if guys started crying like girls then farq hee kia reh jatee hain.. Hmm personally me i hate to cry in front of people… Tears just don’t come when people are around me.. but when iam alone i can cry rivers …

Hum_Hain_Lajawab · January 29, 2008, 5:01pm

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Princess_Fiona · January 29, 2008, 5:02pm

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yeah billi larki hain .. tat is why she is crying

P.S sab teek to hain na.. U really sad? Kio kia bat hain? pm me jaldi say

zobia · January 29, 2008, 5:06pm

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per mera zoor to kisi bhut bari cheez ki nishan-dehi per tha…i mean if they have tears then there is something big

and no they didnt have tears fall when they were crying.

ps. i cry for real… …

its fun you know

ps. banday ko rootay rehna chi hai…ALLAH SWT zayda acha yaad atay hain

Princess_Fiona · January 29, 2008, 5:08pm

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Chalo jee.. Ayalya.. ab main 24/7 rooti sooti face banao

Allah meeya to humaysha humaray dil main hota hain .. so we don’t need an excuse to remember him na

zobia · January 29, 2008, 5:14pm

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zoor was on zayda…or nahi u have to actually make proper dua in order to get it qabool ALLAH SWT is everywhere…no doubt about it…but the matter is about you that can you really sense his presence

-lol…i cry as there is no tomorrow but then i also laugh as i never cried before.
and people with stable personality… evil laugh

ps. i used to be kool and calm until

kher …i am also enjoying this phase…but i am recovering slowly…cuz this time mama asked me to change myself be the one i was

Princess_Fiona · January 29, 2008, 5:17pm

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Until?

Yeah i guess your are right.. nahi main to always hanstee ho.. pagalpan ka dora jo parta hain na

zobia · January 29, 2008, 5:19pm

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…but i just smile

ps. leave until part..its just i got sick that now its hard and now my body cant resist many things…but now mama bhi feel kerti hain…or bhen to bhut kerti mera ghussa…

canpaki · January 29, 2008, 5:58pm

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well sed...

K337 · January 29, 2008, 6:00pm

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i am a boy and i never cry:o

canpaki · January 29, 2008, 6:01pm

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good girl..

subko bata do..

Aliyish · January 30, 2008, 2:03am

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If there's a tear on my face
It makes me shiver to the bones it shakes me babe
It's just a heartache that got cought in my eye
and you know I never cry I never cry

I never cry ..... wish i could .