If the intelligent, ambitious, educated desi men prefer not to use such media, could it be that there is something wrong with it? Or at least they do not prefer it? Should we not trust their judgement?
If most of the ‘eligible bachelors’ are looking elsewhere, there are two possibilities:
It is a good judgement call. Then it necessarily is not their fault.
If they are making bad judgement, they shouldn’t be good rishta prospects anyways!