Boys profiles : rishta hunt

[Mezhgan]

Re: Boys profiles : rishta hunt

@PyariCgudia

Fact is that we have pigeon holed women into meeting desi men through arranged meetings. Now before some of you start snipping at me for personal reasons which has actually already begun, most desi girls are good catches. Let’s leave personal enemies aside here, you may think I am a bad catch but the other 20 girls lined up for every male at a mingling event at ISNA or profiles with rishta aunties are not necessarily bad catches. Vast majority have a higher level of education, pretty well dressed etc.

What I meant regarding the catch bit is that different people have different views on what constitutes a good catch. What constitutes a good catch varies for most people and depends on what the person values and considers important enough to make a priority.

I think part of the problem is that people generalise as to what Pakistani men consider a “good catch” and generalise about what men are looking for, not taking individual differences and preference into account. Contrary to popular opinion, not all Pakistani men are looking for the same thing in a spouse.