Re: Boys profiles : rishta hunt
If we go by the idea that muslim men can marry out but muslim women can’t then we will continue facing the dearth of rishtas that we actually are facing.
Fact is that we have pigeon holed women into meeting desi men through arranged meetings. Now before some of you start snipping at me for personal reasons which has actually already begun, most desi girls are good catches. Let’s leave personal enemies aside here, you may think I am a bad catch but the other 20 girls lined up for every male at a mingling event at ISNA or profiles with rishta aunties are not necessarily bad catches. Vast majority have a higher level of education, pretty well dressed etc.
That FB group FYI is only open to women including older aunties who post their sons photos there. So you’d expect there to be more men listed. Even if you suggest that the FB group is less likely to market to aunties who probably can’t use the internet to advertise their sons you must keep in mind these ratios exist for in person rishta aunties too. They usually have a long book for girls profiles but fewer for men. Woh bhi the men that are having difficulty finding a mate : divorcees, etc.
I think half our deen is the only website I can say has legit good guys and fewer trolls. Probably because of the price and the regulation with postings an profiles.
Shaadi - filled with folks trying to get visas. Some are legit but it’s a minority.
There is an imbalance in men seeking marriage and women seeking marriage trough these mediums and it’s because guys are looking elsewhere. Some in their own community and some marry out or some bring wives from abroad. These are unfortunate facts - can’t use them to justify how much you girls hate me, it’s a real phenomenon, so uh, YOU grow up.
Now for those who actually want to have a non personal debate please participate and if the mode TRy to edit me then edit the insults here from your girlfriends too:
This is unfair to begin with. It’s amazing to me that people would actually say “o why not go out and find someone you can convert?!” As if that’s really easy to do and nobody should really care for their religion except Muslims. After all, it is the true religion so you are doing them a favor. :halo:
AND to support your point, I have actually stated above that there isn’t a shortage of men in the world. I don’t know why people think that.
