Re: Boys profiles : rishta hunt
^This!!!
However, if one absolutely insists on marrying someone of their same background, which is quite alright as well, one should look at a couple of things:
Before pointing fingers at the supposedly numerous flaws of Pakistani men, women should also look at their own flaws and realise that they themselves are not perfect and may not be the perfect catch that they believe themselves to be. When one realises and comes to terms with one’s own issues and imperfections, it is easier to understand the imperfections of others and better relate to people. How well one relates to people is quite significant in finding a spouse.
Secondly, we do not exist in a vacuum and our attitudes and behaviours towards the outside world influence the outside world’s perception and treatment of us. If it is indeed true that every Pakistani Tom, Dick, and Harry is marrying a European/Arab/Persian/xyz ethnicity girl (and I am not so sure that it is), why could this be? Could it be that Pakistani women (or at least the ones having trouble finding someone) also have flaws that are off putting to men?