This is ‘khaas tor pe’ for parents out there. What would you prefer as you children. Boys or Girls or Both. Why?
Please Keep in Mind: This is your own opinion so respect every1’s opinion. Not ALL the boys are good and not ALL the girls are good so keep that in mind b4 posting. Do not make your own statistical data about the whole world based on couple of people from your neighborhood.
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jo allah behtar samjhta hey paida ker day ga :D
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Arre yaar. No doubt but I was not saying it from that point o.v. I just meant like your own desire/wish and why.
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one of both
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doesnt matter
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i think both are equally important for me .
i would surely want to have a boy and a girl
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Well.. why do you have to prefer anything? Why not just be happy wit wat you get as long as they’re healthy? I hate that sucha preference is given for boys, ke boys are better and stuff. I’ve had relatives who CRIED at the birth of a daughter, others kicking their bahus out for having a daughter, and others who prayed that my bhabhi wud have a boy and if i said “Or a girl” they said “nahi nahi, beta hoyga” …
That being said, i still think baby grlz stuff is the most adorable and cutest stuff ive ever seen , little miniskirts the size of your palm, dresses the size of ur hand , jeans that r the length of fingertip to wrist.. 
But whatever I have , i won’t mind
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About the relatives making duas not to have a girl, yes, it is nothing but jahiliyyah. Seen it so many times. As for the baby grl…why not but arent the jeans for boys the same size of grl:) or close…
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Yeah i know, but still.. thier clothes are just cuter, more frillier and pinker and flower-ier..
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I think both are cuter…Boys with their blue jeans and orange little shirt and girls with their pink shirt w/flowers. But I must admit that the clothes of girls have more variety than boys. You can go anywhere and I think you will see this. 
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^ Yeah definitely.. I've noticed baby clothes in pakistan tend to be unisex though.. A few years ago I saw a peacoat for a boy, kasme it was a teeny tiny version of the adult coat.. shooooooo cute
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jo naseeb main houwa larka/ larki doesn,t matter to me..... har aik ko aulaad thori hi milti hai .....khuda ki di kouwi nehmat ka insaan ko shuker ada karna chaiye:o ....... though i personally would like to have a daughter cuz our home is male dominated and is quite boring
sometimes :) ..................
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yeah. u got that right.
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I know right. Last year I was just hanging around and shopping on Link Road in Lahore when I saw this mini shalwar kameez for girl and this leather jacket w/jean for boy. It was like as if they had taken the normal adult size and shrunk it down. :)
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well having three, count em three boys...I can admit that i did wish a bit for a girl but looking at my 3 angels I know how well and truly I've been blessed. Never ever would I trade my boys for anything.
That said, I still get a bit blue when I see the boys dept at the clothing stores...so small and off in a corner when the girls dept takes up half a city block....
I also admit that my last little one was so beautiful that I let his hair get way too long, he had all these beautiful curls...people would tell me what a beautiful girl! THEN I got it cut....
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Ha ha.....That's great....
Like I said earlier, there are less desgins and quantity for boys. That is why girls dept tends to be larger with more colors and designs.
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I think we should pray for healthy children and ask Allah to give us enough taufeek to raise them well as good muslims.
my fantasy marriage life has 6 kids 
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Agree with you on the first point. 6 kids? 3 on each side or what. How would you break it up?
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hiraan hooingaisi bi girls hoti hain ajj kal?.. six bachai:eek:…bachoun ka school to nahi khoolna.
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6 lol::D
mine has 4