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in what order would you rank these qualities that would make u say yes to a marriage proporsal…

1.looks

  1. education

  2. personality, ie good human being, one who gives freedom, manerisms, respects you etc

personally i would go for, personality, education and thats it. i wouldnt care a damn about looks because these days lot of people do look at looks and tahts really annoying because if one is very good looking and doesnt kep you happy then he will automaticall look ugly but if he is ugly and really nice then he will automatically start looking handsome.

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Why is "rich" not listed as a quality?

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well first personality and education and den looks i m not saying ohh he shd be sooo hottt i dnt care if he wuld be dark but ya if he wld have gud prsnality and dats alll :hehe:

It's implied, you see. She figures that if your education (high degree in something practical) don't make you rich....then perhaps your stunning looks will rake in the cash somehow.

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I think it's too hard to answer this question...because how you react in real life my turn out very different from your response to this thread.

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  1. Rack size.

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^:cb:

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3.
1./2.

1 and 2 can't be mutually exclusive. If they are, not worth it. Also, by either one, I don't mean some guy-version of hoor or a Nobel prize winner.

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"rack size"....perv

(and that falls under "looks", btw)

^What about the guy’s ahem size? That doesn’t exactly fall under “looks”, unless… :hmmm:

You mean the size of his nose…yup…falls under “looks.” :stuck_out_tongue:

All physical traits from head-to-toe fall under “looks.” Whether your focus is on the overall package or just one feature is another issue.

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For me, it must be personality. Whenever I have had sorta had a crush on or liked a guy, my friends didn't find him to be that great looking, just average. But the personality wins me over... friendliness, how they speak, their values. Then it's education and their potential to provide for me. Lastly, looks.

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Perv? Moi? Why I never. I am merely a free thinking man who is in touch with sensitive side including but not limited to his emotions.

And that sensitive side is saying rack size deserves a separate category all by itself.

Is “sensitive” the new “superficial”? :konfused:

haha rv, so true!!!

most smokingly hot girls would chose equally smokingly hot guys… thats how it is… ofcourse they’ll come out here and claim looks dont matter :hehe: I dont see any problems with it, good looking guys def. deserve the best out there (and vice versa) :slight_smile:

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^ Agree . Looks matter a lot . At least for the beginning . If you are not attracted to outer beauty then you can’t find that inner beauty .

:chai:

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^Sometimes...if you have no inner beauty...then outer beauty loses its charm.

True but it can also work for hte opposite way…if there is no inner beauty, then the outer beauty may become less beautiful.

I know everyone has come across at least ONE good looking person who has such an awful personality that they begin to look hideous to you.

And I also know many good looking people who are just made better looking b/c of their character and personality. :slight_smile:

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^ yes to RV.

And if inner beauty or ugliness is not known then looks wins in the beginning. That is what I think Namaan said.

I do not think one can easily place the order of preferences so rigidly as it is asked. But a good thread to get some discussion going.

Men put more weight on looks but do not ignore any other qualities. Women place more weight on men being able to protect and provide them. Does not mean they would ignore the looks in the man.

Regarding the size of her rack or his 'member', one can agree to some extent that her rack size may come in to looks, but his member size........unless he walks around naked, does not. Not talking about women with X-ray eyes or imagination.

Even for women, they have many tricks in their goodie bags to make their looks including the size of racks look attractive.

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