Re: Boys and girls playing together
I think segregation breeds issues. And honestly if I had daughters I'd want them to be fully aware and compentant around boys.
TLK you sure you having issues with boys doesnt have anything to do with how you percieved girls at that age? - I'm not mocking you, completely serious. Am assuming that you were raised in Pakistan right? That difference and the whole generational gap should account for some differences in how the issue should be treated now.
You can't put at bay the boys but you can teach your daughter how to handle them.
Next time she's in an uncomfortable position; tell her she has everyright to yell at the boy. Bet the parents won't think its cute after their bacha gets a chapal across his face.