Boyfriends

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How do you define a boyfriend? Had the most ridiculous conversation today with this guy I’m talking to (the one I mention these days in my blog) about how guys I’ve spoken to in my past for marriage are NOT boyfriends. I wasn’t going on dates regularly with those guys. Spoke to them to get an idea if marriage would work or not. And because I’m cautious, I speak to them for MONTHS, because that’s when the chicorapan eventually becomes evident. That’s not the same thing as having a BF. He thinks he is my BF!!! I’m like, wow because I thought BF’s are exclusive, do sweet stuff for their GF’s on valentine’s day, and instead of flying to Mardis Gras, they fly to see their GF when they can.

:-/

What the hell is up with the desi vs. American definition of BF?? AND I found him on half our deen and he is actively using the website (thank God for "User last seen _____ " field on profiles). I’m like… last I checked, a BF isn’t scanning rishta profiles of other chics.

???

Is this just a Pakistani paindoo thing?

You TALK to someone and you become their girlfriend…omg I’ve had hundreds of boyfriends.

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you know, if you reverse BF it become FB, like face book.

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Ask him why is he looking into other rishtas if he thinks you too are BF/ GF. That time of relationship is exclusive.

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he probably thinks if a girl talks to him, she becomes her gf

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This. Straight up ask him.

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off topic .. PCG, mind sharing the link to your blog?

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Her blogs are on GS, look into Blogs on top of the page.

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Yes thats a cultural difference for sure.. funny one though :slight_smile:

I kinda feel relaxed now thinking i may have hundreds of GFs age range 4-99 :hehe:

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time to make an account on half our deen!

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Wait a minute. For you know that when he logged in last, don't you have to log in? That means that when he logs in and checks your last activity, he sees you pretty active on the site. He may have the same concern about you that you have about him

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^^ Yeah but she's not referring to him as her boyfriend... He's calling her his girlfriend though.

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One of my dear friend, a jewish colleague was really mad at this guy because she slept with him and he thought thought that made him, her boyfriend. Life is now complicated.

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Well, I would make it clear that you are not in an exclusive relationship (yet).

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same guy OP mentioned asked his last gf - gurl how many boyfran you has before the me. girl showed up with a ziplock bag with 7 grains of rice and 100 dollars in it, and said, for every boyfriend i had, i put one grain of rice into this bag. guy was like.. 7.. wow..so what's the 100 bucks for? girl ji be like, thats what i got when i sold 10 lbs of rice last month.

yeah..im bored.

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^^ oh stop it - this was refurbished.
The original joke was something like put an egg into this cubbord whenever you wife cheats.
There was three eggs and tons of cash, and so on...

Yes I'm bored as well.

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Me too

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so when is boyfriend becoming a husband.

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i like bore people here. could you guys please tell more jokes ?

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Never heard of this before…Very Bollywood indeed sad

Its more or less casual dating but definitely not a serious BF/GF relationship. I would get such a headache from such dufuses :mad:

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Ask him his over/under on 3 times a night. Tell him "under" need not apply.

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