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White guys aren't usually bothered about the girl being a virgin not because they can't find one, it's more because they're generally not as** insecure** as the desi men in question and have generally evolved past the level of being total hypocrites, tho there are still some losers here and there who think that way..

In arranged marriage scenarios obviously most desi men do ask for a virgin because there's no bond or love there yet and it's just simpler to draw up 'requirements'. If a guy falls for a girl or even is simply attracted to her enough 99% of the time he won't give a toss if she is 'pure.' How many desi guys would turn down an Aishwarya Rai lookalike even if they know she's been in relationships? Prob like 1%..

Talking of desi men who have slept around who need virgins, seriously how insecure can u get that u can't handle a girl who has done the same as you?? Scared u can't compare to her ex or that u won't be man enough and need to get a newbie who'll not have anyone to be able to compare you too?

Funny it's these same sort of men who are unable to grow up and move out of their mummys' houses.. Actually they're not even men, they're overgrown little boys..

And Lahori, I very much doubt EDAL is even married to a Palestinian seeing as tho he has next to no knowledge about their culture or customs (such as the fact Arab women hardly ever take the husband's surname or they don't even like their daughters living in a joint family desi style).. If u were married to an Arab u would know all this stuff..

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Virginity matters to a lot of people, and insofar as it is an indication of the person's morality, it is significant. I certainly did not want to marry a man who was sexually experienced.

But someone who has slept around has no right to demand a virgin.

People who are not virgins are not necessarily immoral.

Having a preference for something is different from prioritizing or fetishizing it. Making the search for the partner all about finding a virgin is idiotic. Devaluing a human being based on whether or not s/he is a virgin is disgusting and immoral.

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Virginity matters to a lot of people, and insofar as it is an indication of the person's morality, it is significant. I certainly did not want to marry a man who was sexually experienced.

But someone who has slept around has no right to demand a virgin.

People who are not virgins are not necessarily immoral.

Having a preference for something is different from prioritizing or fetishizing it. Making the search for the partner all about finding a virgin is idiotic. Devaluing a human being based on whether or not s/he is a virgin is disgusting and immoral.

Spot on.

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loving the double posts :rotfl:

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Sahar, do it :no:

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My comments deserve to be posted twice. :snooty:

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My comments deserve to be posted twice. :snooty:

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Nothing wrong with wanting a virgin if u are one urself, good for you for having ur principles..

Just those who are two-faced need to grow up and take a long hard look at themselves..

I am itching to do 'em, myself :emmy:

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^go ahead.

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^ Finally a non double post! :smooth:

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--insecure? how so?
--more than you would think (seen better, she got no chest, behind ha)
--it's not about that, if she hasn't done anything but has dated guys, it isn't same as marrying someone who hasn't done anything. There are certain girls that are good enough for 1 night stand, certain girls good enough for time pass, certain girls are good enough to date, and very very few girls are good enough to be your wives (according to many men, not just my theory). I don't want to marry Jenna Jameson (probably most famous whore?) it's not b/c she will be comparing me to her ex's or i can't satisfied her (which i'm certain i won't be able to) but it's just that she is easy and used/abused.

Living on your own doesn't make you a man. Taking care of responsibilities, big heart, certain manhood features/characterizes is what makes you a man. There are plenty of men who earn enough money to live on their own but still with their parents. It's like saying if Iron Mike Tyson lived with his mother, he is NOT a man.

as far as EDAL goes, i don't know if he is married to a Palestinian or not, and to be honest with you i could careless. I was just pointing out one of his points and which i agree with. But i'm in a different position than he is, i never done anything while he has done plenty and sees nothing wrong with it. I could be with friends right now but they are with girls so i am at home watching tv and on GS, talk about being a loser :(

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^^^^^

Jenna jameson? You forgot to mention that you are alone at home watching porn whilst your friends are with REAL girls. lol