Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends
Not saying if this is right or wrong but look at it this way…if a girl has a rep where its clear she’s had boyfriends and most likely slept with them as well, she’s less likely to find a guy who will marry her…because even the same guys who actually had sex with her, would rather go look for someone else.
On the other hand, when it comes to the same guys…no one cares whether they had sex or not prior to marraige, all people care about is whether they come from a good family, have a good decent job and financial stability.
Thats just the way life goes…you can argue whether its right or wrong but at the end of the day, girls should think twice about getting into relationships before marraige…more often than not, all they’re gonna do is get themselves into a hole.
Using that logic it’s ok for me to be racist towards black people cos it’s commonly done and not considered a big deal in desi society.. If people acted like sheep and kept saying ‘well that’s how it is in our culture’ nothing would ever change..