Boyfriends and Girlfriends

[MissTY]

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends

@Hollywood

Not saying if this is right or wrong but look at it this way…if a girl has a rep where its clear she’s had boyfriends and most likely slept with them as well, she’s less likely to find a guy who will marry her…because even the same guys who actually had sex with her, would rather go look for someone else.

Not all men are so judgmental, only the very desi ones are. I have seen plenty of liberal desi men who have no problem in marrying a girl despite her sexual past.

On the other hand, when it comes to the same guys…no one cares whether they had sex or not prior to marraige, all people care about is whether they come from a good family, have a good decent job and financial stability.

Thats just the way life goes…you can argue whether its right or wrong but at the end of the day, girls should think twice about getting into relationships before marraige…more often than not, all they’re gonna do is get themselves into a hole.

It depends on what kind of social circle you are in. I have seen plenty of desi girls growing up in US who have been with many guys and had absolutely no problem getting married.