My bf on some online forum … he told me about that forum so i join too … I joined that forum just to talk to him by being some other girl as I dint use my real name n dint reveal my identity to him too … to see how he talks to some random girl when she tries to be frank with him… so when i saw him online… i started the conversation… he dint … so i talked in a weird way with him to see how he gives a response … n he did give a response poorly … at one point he was kissing that girl (in writing ) … obviously he dint know it was me … i wanted to check him n see how far he can go … this really made me upset about his moral values … he being in a relationship … doing this sexting sort of thing … it clearly means he doesnt mind doing that … 
what you guys think … was it just for fun what he was doing or should i take this thing seriously?
what if he does this after marriage too … when i am not around he will take advantage of being with anyone … this is really making me depressed …
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oh sheila.. was that you?? Oh why didnt u tell me before. I mean.. i mean… i was just practicing .. and that wasnt even French, i think that was a russian kiss or may be a german.. 
oh wut do i do know 
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DIVORCE HIM!!!
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Are you sure he isn’t a 45 year old, already married tharki budha?
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^That’s a valid concern.
OP so you have never met this guy and he is your boyfriend? How old are you?
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Oh gosh..if you are not trolling..I feel really bad for you. 
If you haven’t revealed your identity to him, it would be interesting to know what he’d say if you asked if he had a girlfriend. But you’d risk feeling worse than you already do especially if he denies having a gf.
And if you were to confront him and tell him it was you…there’s a chance he could use the deception against you even if he did feel embarrassed about his actions. He could possibly say that since you initiated the “weird” sexy type of talk…that this must mean that you’ve done something like this before with other guys…he could use it against u in that way too. Or he could give you the lame response that it was just “time pass” and that the only real and true feelings he has are for you and no other girl… Or yikes…what if he tells you that he wouldn’t have resorted to this if only you would talk “weirdly” more often with him. Tricky situation…not sure what to suggest.
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lol RV you have already said everything.
If someone makes a good plan to make an account as opposite gender and talk in wutever way to her bf, wont then make another multi just to ask this “suggestion” from rest of us 
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Recommend AAPL to him. Ask him to back up that truck.
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You are dealing with Human Garbage! If you aren’t the same (Flirting_Doing it with other guys), clearly both of you are not from same fraternity! part our ways now.
I am not it! And I expect my man to be the same, naturally! and I’ll never have to test his loyality like you did! Eat some brain larki!
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Save his sexts and show them to him as yourself. See what he says.
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We have seen each other in real life… we meet & see each other all the time… its been 1 year almost now… thats why he once told me he is on this forum … so I joined to check what he does …without revealing my identity to him … how he reacts when someone talks like this with him… i was just rrying to check him…
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He cant… as i was just checking him what he does … its not like i do this weird sex type talk with everyone … i knew it was him… thats y i talked n wanted to see his response … n as expceted his response was bad …
sometimes i think its not a big deal … he might be doing that out of chaskay baazi … as he got the chnace ,… as he was not the one to initiate the talk… but the i think still he is in relationship with me … n then i think about his moral values ..
what you guys think?
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It’s a big deal.
You don’t trust him and he shouldn’t trust you. You are willing to lie and pretend to be someone else to trap him. He is willing to transgress certain boundaries and behave in a way that you find unfaithful.
You both need to grow up.
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In relationships, playing games like these is never a good idea in my opinion.
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a/s/l?
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P.S: Now I know why the heck GS chat crashed 
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I am not 45 and I am not budha.
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So PCG pretends to be tharki budha?
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So how far did u go to make him kiss you in writing? Come on. Dont be shy. Tell us.
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No decent guy will kiss a girl even in writing. Dump him and save your life.