Atlanta made an interesting point in Catwomans thread and id like to elaborate on it…
So just a question to all the gals…how are relations with your male friends and your boyfriend different?..
Atlanta raised a point over whether anyone is actually intimate in any shape way or form with their supposed boyfriends…
Im not saying sex as such but just a simple kiss and stuff…
Is there a clear distinction between the two…cos what makes your boyfriend feels he is special in comparison to your other male friends…intimacy of some sort tends to suggest your boyfriend/girlfriend and that you share a special bond that you dont share with others…so how then do you lot make your boyfriends feel special if you show him no intimacy of any sort…
Cos obviously the different between your boyfriend and a close friend is that there is some kind of physical thing going on no?
no i think the differene between friend a boyfriend is that you share everything in ur life with him whereas friend doesn't need to know every single details of ur current life..
^^^well ur boyfriend doesnt need to know every single detail of ur life either:D
you dont need intimacy to make ur bf feel special…it’s the emotinal bond u have with him which makes him feel special…this bond is (should be) like no other.
besides intimacy doesnt require physical contact…there are other ways one can be intimate with your special someone.
i dnt hve a boyfriend ....thank God.....but i hve a lot of guy friends...
but with ur guy friends.....u just feel friendly, care free and stuff that u wud do with ur normal girl friends.......but with a boyfriend....everythin is like this but much more intense....passion and stuff.....and dil main Kuch kuch hota hai......
i knw i knw ...that ur probably thinking that how does she knw all of this, if she doesnt hve a boyfriend....its coz.....wen u hve a lot of guy friends,......u ok I smetimes wonder if i had all this and love to share with sme1 wat wud it be like....so thats how....but every1s experiences and feelings are different......:)
Ansoon...my friends know a lot more about me than gals ive known cos my friends have been there from Day 1...also there are some things you prefer to not reveal to your partner which you do to your friends...
And shararti bachi...ur sweet...but id like to ask you and say angel eyes...how these strong feelings dat u have manifest themselves tangibly...the fact that you have strong feelings for someone and kuch hota hai doesnt make them your boyfriend...u can have these feelings about a friend but how exactly do you lot create a distinction between friend and boyfriend not only to yourself but to them...what are these other types of intimacy?
naughtybynature, men can answer that question as well as girls. i like to greet my girlfriend with a french kiss. and my friends who are girls with an arab style peck on the cheeks.
I don't think there is a clear cut difference between a friend and a boyfriend...because the roles switch from time to time...and situation to situation... :)