Ladies. What would you rather have?
Hot man, decent job but nothing great, fun, a little too fun 
, but has trouble getting serious about serious things like issues of long term financial health and saving for kids’ college fund
OR
not hot, great job, lots of money, serious about serious issues, but boring and not sexually stimulating
?
(this is NOT about me. Clearly. We have all established that I don’t get rishtas so this is clearly a hypothetical scenario)
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Oh comon. It's not fun when you don't play by the rules. You have to pick one.
hmmm.... since I'm kinda boring and take things too seriously, I'd prefer my man to be lively-spirited and fun... money and hotness don't really matter.. hot guys are boastful idiots, rich guys are arrogant jerks.... :D
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First, coz I'm more than happy to take care of the "serious" stuff.
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ps. guys who think that girls can be as serious as them they are are wrong about us. i havent met a boring girl. even the ones that show-off seriousness are all acting :D
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First one. Lifes too short to be so *serious *and take things to heart.
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DEF THE FIRST ONE. I once knew a guy that was thirty going on eighty. He was that bloody boring and serious about every topic you touched on. I couldnt stand him even for a minute. And I agree with MB, life short enough as it is, dont make it worse! please!!
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I made it too easy. What if hot guy had no job?
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**PCG what are you doing to me? One can’t have sex and the other is incapable of getting serious 
I guess I’ll take the 1st one :eyeroll:
and we can get him a job, no problem!
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In theory the first one sounds great, but after a while you'll want him to grow up and take responsibility. It gets tiresome being the responsible, mature one in the relationship and you feel like his amma nagging him to be an adult. A woman wants to be able to rely on her man and number one isn't going to do that for her.
So, I'd say number two.
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^ hmmm ok, well I would just wait for hot guy to get himself a job and then go for him. BUT he would need to be educated enough to at least get a good job sometime in the future if he doesnt have one now. so I would wait for him. hmmm just thought actually there would be a limit as to how long I would wait as well, like I would set him a realistic goal like by the end of six months or year. Not longer than that im afraid, or Im moving on to another hot guy but with job. There must be some out there. NO?
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PCG - The first guy seems ideal...keep him if he is good in bed :D
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third option: stunning lesbian girl who happens to be a top-notch brain surgeon. every time you look at her, your knees turn to jello.
personally, i will be rooting for option 3.
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This is not about you, queer
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Lesbians are a part of American society . Not considering them as an option is racist . 
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sure pcg, this thread isn't about me or you. it should be in cafe.
third option: stunning lesbian girl who happens to be a top-notch brain surgeon. every time you look at her, your knees turn to jello.
personally, i will be rooting for option 3.
dr. cuddy isn't a brain surgeon or a lesbian! away with your fantasies!
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I would go with the 2nd one...i'm sure if he's not hot then he's a least cute...and I think being able to support your family and being serious when push comes to shove is important...as for the boring aspect...i think I got that covered enough for 2 ppl!
