Boxer Khan's wife and In-laws

[Bobby1]

Re: Boxer Khan’s wife and In-laws

@redvelvet

How sad that the dirty laundry is being aired so publicly. Their marriage was able to ride out Amir’s infidelities, but I wonder if it will survive this recent mud-slinging.

It could have been handled differently. For her to post that her husband has also been a victim of his parents’ bullying…even if it were true…he still may not have wanted it to be discussed openly. It could be an issue that he wanted to deal with privately. People have complex bonds with their parents and it’s something we tend to naturally be very sensitive about. I don’t condone abuse, but it’s still a cheap thing to bash your spouse’s parents on social media. It just exacerbated the situation.

I read that in retaliation to her in-laws’ comments regarding her refusal to wear a dupatta, she posted a nude photo of her brother-in-law at some party. I get that Amir’s parents are displaying double standards with expecting modesty in their bahu while their sons go about doing whatever. But if she did indeed post a nude photo of Amir’s brother, did she have permission to do so? It’s defamation, so is that not a form of abuse as well? Attempting to hit your daughter-in-law is paindu-jahilana behavior…but posting such pics to prove a point is not any better or superior. Sab aik doosre ko nanga kar rahay hain; now they all need a dupatta.

She did say that she wants to shed light on the societal issue of abuse and bullying from in-laws. I am privy to many such situations where bahhus are abused incessantly. When the son defends the bahu then they turn against the son also, love seems to be conditional with many, as long as you do what they ask you, they love you. Adults should be free to make their own decisions. In the law here compelling a wife to do anything against her will is considered an abuse. The parents say they should be recognized for the success of their son and I ask why is it only the sons parents should be recognized. Why not recognize the wife’s parents. Amirs conduct displays that he sides with his wife as he should.

BTW posting someones pictures are not a crime or defamation, you cant take pictures of people in bathrooms etc but in public they lose the right to that privacy. You don’t want naked pictures posted on the net, then don’t get naked in public.