Re: Boxer Khan’s wife and In-laws
Err…why do you always misinterpret my posts? Since when did I condone the double standards of his parents or guys? His parents were wrong in trying to hit her. And her approach in exposing and confronting them was not commendable either. No, you can’t force someone to wear a dupatta. I doubt parents are 100% pleased with how both their sons violate rules of Islam, but just as they can’t force their own sons to do anything they can’t force their bahu. The problem is lack of compromise and middle-ground. While you can’t force someone to wear a dupatta…is it the end of the world? No, it’s not. Our parents are from a different generation and they have a fixed mentality. If it makes them that uneasy, then would it be a big deal to at least wear a dupatta when you’re visiting them? I don’t think so. When you go to a funeral, you don’t wear beach apparel. Even goray folk try to maintain sensitivity in dressing depending on the environment/situation. So, wear the dupatta when you’re around them if not at other times. Similarly his parents should make some compromises and let some things go. There’s supposed to be some flexibility in relationships. When neither party is gonna budge on things or let them go…this is the kind of mess you have. Now you may not like what I have to say and I don’t care…(you and I go a long way back and rarely do we see eye to eye 
) …but ofsos ki baat hai k baypardagi is so precious to Faryal. Na Faryal ko apnay kapray utarnay main sharam aati hai…and na doosron ko nanga dikhanay main sharam aati hai. And neither do her in-laws have any sharam if they’re resorting to hitting and throwing things at her. I don’t have issues with female empowerment…but it’s sad that a woman’s empowerment in the world is associated with the shedding of her clothes, whereas for a man…it’s more about his abilities and things that have more substance. I’m all for supporting women, but I don’t care for blind championing where one can’t even see the mistakes made by the woman…even in her method/approach, etc.