Ok…so like here’s the thing.. I don’t like it when ppl ask for my stuff. it’s not even about not trusting the person, b/c i know when someone borrows something, i’ll get it back on time and in good condition so it is kinda weird as to why i just don’t like it. i will always offer w/ the expectation that someone will take me up on the offer and i don’t mind so I dont’ see myself as being selfish or mean or kanjoos…but what i hate is that if i refuse when someone asks, burra lagta hai and they’ll always hav that picture of me being stingy and cheap and greedy..And it’s the same wiht work too actually voluntarily i do alot of stuff, but i hate when someone asks me to…
hahah no i dont think it is bad . i am like that i cant rfeuse when ppl want to borrow my stuff but inside i will be worried that i wont get it back or it wont be in agodo condition when i do get it back.
also at work i absolutely hate it when i am asked to do extra work but again volutarily i do it .
dil hamesha dia sanam chahay laRki jaisi bi hoti hai
dil ki keemat na kabhi bhaRti hai na kam hoti hai
ulfat, pyar kay dhanday ka yahi hai asool ankokha
dil hai mera 7-11 ki tarah kabhi band nahi hota
*aap mere dil-e-nazuk ki toheen farma rahi haiN. Mera dil hai koi kiraye wali cycle ki dukaaN nahi. Anyhow before Sara kaaki ki this thread gets falooda-fied, lets go to some other thread for mazeed chawals
I have stopped being 'politically correct' now...i just flat out say sorry i dont share my things....which i really dont....its not being *****y at all....its ur stuff that you bought for yourself only....no one owes anything to anyone...just say no....no matter who it is
^yeah i agree to dat ; if you are r not comfortable with sharing your stuff or u ll have to worry all the time dat wat shape u ll get it back in , its better to say a simple no. saves one from alot of worry n sometimes whinning after
^yeah i agree to dat ; if you are r not comfortable with sharing your stuff or u ll have to worry all the time dat wat shape u ll get it back in , its better to say a simple no. saves one from alot of worry n sometimes whinning after
What if you know u will get it back in good condition, but you just.don't.want.to?
