boring husband

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^They sure LIKE acting dumb when it comes to in-laws … in all other matters, they are too smart :pcg:

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I hate chatting on the phone, particularly when there is no clear purpose. On the other hand, I love sitting and chatting with people in person.

Relationships are different in person. You guys need to move in together asap.

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once u guys start living together.. u r gonna have plenty to talk about.. TRUST ME!! i have heard this so many times before n the same reason, couples live apart.. once u guys get together, make love n start life together, it’s gonna be better than u expected.. don’t worry.. just wait till u guys r together.. :k:

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Bathsheba did you marry him for the money?

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I can imagine her going on phone:

allah aap barey boring hain

:omg:

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:omg:

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lol ya i do say that you are so boring...and he is like what do you want me to do lol... no i didnt marry him for money he dont have any lol..

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you lol too much

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^yeah...and i think u r more immature than he is boring!

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ahhh sighhhh no i guess everyone is tooo mature here lol....

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^Well, maturity is needed for marriage.....and even if you're not married.....some situations require you to be mature.

It's REALLY EASY to brush everyone off here and say they are "tooo mature"......rather than consider the possibilities in terms of causes/exceptions/solutions regarding your marriage. The latter would require maturity.

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lol

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lolololol.. sub ke hisse ka lol poora ho gaya.. abb koi lol na kare.. warna main apne lol se sub ko pareshan kar doonga.. lol.

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Might i suggest Erotic Urdu poetry? Boring people are in to that trust me!

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Bathsheba, I find it weird that you can come on GS forums and talk to STRANGERS like this and not talk to your life partner. He is your husband and he loves you very much from the sound of it. Each person has their own faults, instead of picking them out, we should try to find a solution to the problem or compromise. 50% give and take. That is what relationships are. If you are very unhappy in this situation you need to tell your husband you want to be with him and not so far away, because distance can sometimes breed misunderstandings. Everything takes time, especially in a marriage. You have only been married 4 months, and you are not even together. Have patience dear and Inshallah everything will work out. At least he LISTENS to you, what could be better than having a husband who listens to every word? Maybe he loves your voice :). In conclusion, talk to him about your frustrations calmly and I'm sure you two will find a solution. If I have said anything here that offends you, its not intentional.

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Every person is different. Some men really don't care of realize the importance of giving gifts/calling their in laws but it isn't a big deal at all. I buy gifts for people (my own family) and tell them that my husband has sent them. My husband is a super nice person MA, he is just not smart when it comes to this. I buy gifts for his sisters because he doesn't care but he doesn't mind me going out to get something. He is just indifferent and too involved in his own work/life. He isn't social at all. I push him to go meet people. But let me say it again, I am glad I married him. He is the best thing in my life.

Just remember everyone is different and once you are with your husband your life is going to be sooo soo different. Some people are not too good on talking on the phone. I hate talking for hours on the phone. I would rather sit with someone and talk face to face. You need to realize that if this guy truly means everything to you and he loves you too, this isn't an issue at all. You'll have so much to talk about after you get married, you'll be amazed. Just wait and give it time. If he is boring right now, don't worry. Things will change. Don't complain too much too him, he may not like it.

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The director is 1000% right ... its just because hez been through everything in life n u havent faced the realities in life

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It won't really be fun with both partners talking, partying and socializing.... in separate states.

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The issue here is age gap, you said u are 12 years younger than him. He has passed the partying stage.

Now you are married to him and there is no point comparing him with others.

Give him sometime and you need to slow down too, you have a family connected to you and also your husband

Did you speak to him before geting married?

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He might be having financial issues

Give him time and I am sure you will be able to take him out for socialising.

Comparing him won't help u. All the best