Can you please suggest me a book preferably in Urdu with following:
preferably Written by Pakistani Author so he/she knows Pakistani culture and family issues
Post marital life advises for both wife and husband
What are do’s and don’ts for both partners
How should one proceed with conflicts
That should emphasize on how women an avoid demeaning attitude
That should provide how encouragement and being polite helps boost men love and confidence
Please don’t suggest me books like
Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus:
Not a culturally relevant book for men, plus author at one time says women should care less about their husbands to receive more love , which is not agreeable.
Tohfa Dulha/dulhan
Due to highly religious content might turn off my partner
Re: Book for relationship advice, post marriage advice :do's and don'ts
You don't need a book. You need to read all of this forums previous threads/posts. It includes discussions on all possible issues that desi/pakis might face.
Re: Book for relationship advice, post marriage advice :do's and don'ts
The best book I read is 5 love languages. Of course the whole book is based on the premise that at least one of the partner is willing to fix relationship issues in case of a rocky marriage.
If willingness to fix things is not there, then no book, counseling or prayers is going to help. In our desi society, 90% of the marriages are failing because both partners lack the willingness to make things work.