Bond between Allah and Banda.

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In Quran the word 'Iman' (faith) is always used in conjunction with the word 'Amal' (good action or deeds).........this is without an exception so obviously there is an unbreakable link between the two..........or one might say tht both things must run in parallel to e/o as one without the other is of little use..........so by simply doing good deeds and staying away from the bad ones will result in strong faith and vice versa.......which is fairly noticeable in our daily lives........
the type of family we r born in, friends, society, are all circumstantial factors tht indeed have a very strong influence on our actions (and faith)..........one who performs good deeds in tougher circumstances of course gets better reward.....which is a basic concept tht is repeated over and over in Quran and the teachings of the Prophet SAWW........Prophets of Allah SWT faced the toughest circumstances than all yet did not remained firm in their belief on God.........Imam Ali AS has said ""Islam is practised by actions, not words".......

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RIGHT, but at the end of the day all of the above doesn't prove the existence of god. All it proves is that there was so and so who did such and such and now he has a cult following of a billion people who are ready to defend it no matter what. Don't assume that I am not familiar with the religion. I have studied it in great details but never once I felt those were God's words.

a) Historical evidence: How does it prove the existence of god? If you speak of miracles, where's the proof? All of have been debunked or shown to have been plagiarized from ancient religious texts.**

b) Language and interpretation of scripture: **OK! I don't speak arabic and maybe my interpretation is entirely wrong. But what would you say about difference of opinion among muslims themselves and islamic scholars. One believes Hijab is wajib and the other believes it's not, one can even prove it and the other claims it can't be proven. There are million other examples. AND A BOOK DOESN'T PROVE AN OMNIPOTENT GOD EXISTS!


c) Logic of text: ****What's logical about men being able to marry three women yet a woman can't do the same? This is a very simplified and a popular example hence I am mentioning this. There are others but wouldn't mention them due to their offensive nature..

***d) Fulfilment of prophecies: *Tukkay/basic probability? I can say a 1000 things right now and one or two of them are bound to happen in the next 1400 years. Also, you may see something and relate it to a religious prophecy because your mind is preoccupied with it, whereas I may see it as a mere coincidence. ****

e) Beauty in scriptures: ******I don't see any beauty in any scriptures. They aren't any more beautiful than another biased fictional history text book. again, one would be delusional enough to find any book "beautiful" if they truly feel it's from the divine. So faith has to be there for the placebo to be effective.


f) Cohesion of ideas and concepts within the faith - i.e. no contradictions:******** I see a million contradictions in Quran but regardless of what I say, you will refuse to see it or work around it somehow connect one to the other. You will say A could be taken literally but B is only a metaphor but they will both seem to discuss the same issue in my perspective yet have a different outcome. There are a lot of examples for this and that will lead to another discussion altogether but feel free to google it.

**g) Authenticity of narratives: **Why would I believe something that is said to be timeless yet there's no evidence in sight for it? Why should I treat religious narratives any different than how I treat another historical anecdote/narrative? Just for the record, I don't take anything at face value regardless of its nature.

AGAIN, it comes down to having predefined faith in God for the rest of it to even matter! the question remains: why do you believe in God and I don't?

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exactly.....why shud we want to give up the teachings tht we have got given to us and have been proven to us by our life experiences....... give it up for what?.......some clever philosophies and random ideas tht do their rounds for a few years in the academic circles only to b replaced by another ones?...........

"Let there be no compulsion in religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects Taghut (evil) and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things."Holy Quran

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Yet that's exactly what you seem to be doing- to me at least. The Quranic miracles have been debunked a million times, it's anything but scientifically watertight. Again, it's your strong belief in the scripture that you can't refute creationism even though there's much less evidence for it than evolution!

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Peace Theorist

Many informed decisions are made on comparative data not proof, after all Islam is a belief it is not out to prove God to you - simply to Guide you to Him.

Regarding hijab is there absolutely no difference of opinion of it being wajib amongst the ulema ... what does however differ is what makes the hijab and as a result Shari'ah ensures that certain things are tightened or loosened based on the other factors that affect society.

Logic = Well 4 wives can each have 2 children say and the man gets 8 children. Each mother's attention is given only to 2 children. The other way round however, 4 men marrying one wife. The wife may only have one husband's child at a time. In the first case she only had 2 children, but in this case she will need to have 8 children probably one after the other ... in the first case all 8 children could have come within 2 years, in the second case there would have to be a wait of around 8 years to achieve this ... it would be unjust for the other three men to wait their turns while she is expecting the child of one the men ... She will also get no rest ... and will have to cater for the houses of all the men ... if she is in charge then the men will be subject to unfairness on account of the time they will need to wait their turns. If this is not logical to you then I guess our discussions are useless.

Your dismissal of prophecies is typical however what Sayyiduna Muhammad (SAW) said ALL of those things have come about so far.

The recitation and the perfection of the Arabic is proof of the unmatched beauty of the Qur'an.

Unfortunately I do not believe you are able to identify contradictions properly. We will be going through that topic in the Logic lessons inshaAllah.

The authenticity of narration provides referential integrity - that is why in science reports and articles we use references and have a bibliography.

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At one point I was an atheist. I was born and raised in a liberal Muslim family . Liberal does not mean that the were liberated ( separated or cut off) from religion. Religion was very much part of their daily lives but they encouraged independent thinking. So when I declared that I am an atheist and started arguing nobody beat me up or cut ties with me they presented counter arguments. Some were powerful enough for me to bring me back to religion. Alhumdulilah.

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That's exactly my point! It's a faith, some people just never get it.

About your other arguments, let's just agree to disagree. I still don't see any logic in your answers but then again I don't believe there's an omnipotent God.

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Yup, sounds very much like my own family. They did present counter arguments and I had even more counter arguments/questions/examples. Unfortunately, in trying to prove myself right, I have shaken a lot of people's faith in my own family, my sisters, my husband, my own dad. So yeah, I don't know.. Maybe I am just a really good talker or I really know what the hell I am doing. lol Either way, no matter what I don't think someone's belief in God can be shaken. It's just there..

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Quite frankly ... if you don't see logic in my answers then perhaps you can show me where I have been illogical ... because although I cannot prove God to you ... we can indeed prove our logic to one another ... so please bring me an argument that I have used and you feel that it is illogical ...

Let me help you with the first one ... My claim:

We don't always need 100% proof to make sensible decisions ... most of the decisions humans make is out of a sense of "better" or "worse" ... therefore "evidence" is often more important than proof and we can see results of our decisions which are "informed" and crystalise our understanding and arrive at better solutions. This method can be proven by using iteration - a mathematical method to arrive at a value without knowing how to exactly arrive there.

You see "no logic" in this ... please state where my logic here is flawed ... or which rule of logic am I breaking here. Remember I am not proving the subject of the discussion but proving that my method to facilitate decision making is logical.

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I see logic in your THIS post but I don't see how it relates to religion vs. atheism debate. We don't need 100% proof to make sensible decisions yet** you refer to religion to make almost all of your decisions, I don't.

If you and I arrive at the same results using two different approaches, how does it make mine wrong but yours right? It's not a question of hard empirical evidence but of morality and common sense. One doesn't need any guidance from a higher power to make sensible decisions. If someone does, then I question their intelligence.


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Regarding hijab is there absolutely no difference of opinion of it being wajib amongst the ulema ... what does however differ is what makes the hijab and as a result Shari'ah ensures that certain things are tightened or loosened based on the other factors that affect society.
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That's THE difference of opinion. Using your logic, one can easily come to the conclusion that hijab is either wajib or not wajib. When one doesn't know what needs to be covered and what's not and a million mouths are telling you different things, you are likely to do what suits you best.

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Logic = Well 4 wives can each have 2 children say and the man gets 8 children. Each mother's attention is given only to 2 children. The other way round however, 4 men marrying one wife. The wife may only have one husband's child at a time. In the first case she only had 2 children, but in this case she will need to have 8 children probably one after the other ... in the first case all 8 children could have come within 2 years, in the second case there would have to be a wait of around 8 years to achieve this ... it would be unjust for the other three men to wait their turns while she is expecting the child of one the men ... She will also get no rest ... and will have to cater for the houses of all the men ... if she is in charge then the men will be subject to unfairness on account of the time they will need to wait their turns. If this is not logical to you then I guess our discussions are useless.
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You missed my point. WHY allow four wives to begin with? Especially if circumstances/cultures couldn't remain the same all throughout time. This perhaps applied to a certain era but keeping fours wives today would seem unbelievably cruel and immoral.

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Your dismissal of prophecies is **typical **however what Sayyiduna Muhammad (SAW) said ALL of those things have come about so far.
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What he said is also plagiarized to the MAX!

Duh' What do you expect? I don't just see Islamic prophecies, I see a million other prophecies being thrown left and right froma all different religions and somehow they all believe they have been fulfilled. You can't reason here.

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The recitation and the perfection of the Arabic is proof of the unmatched beauty of the Qur'an.
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LOL, you see it that way because you are reading it with your religious delusional/magical glasses on. Again, you believe it is the truth. If I believed a children's book held the ultimate truth, I would see unbelievable beauty in it too. All about perspective...

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Unfortunately I do not believe you are able to identify contradictions properly. We will be going through that topic in the Logic lessons inshaAllah.
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just as I expected. The moment a religious person tells me "you misunderstood, it's not this but that, your logic is flawed" I stop arguing with them. YOU SEE IT AS THE ULTIMATE TRUTH HENCE YOU SEE NO MISTAKES. I see it as any other book (not a well written one either) and I can SEE the contradictions and all the mistakes you fail to see.

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The authenticity of narration provides *referential integrity *- that is why in science reports and articles we use references and have a bibliography.
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It's an excuse to make all the contradictions seem like they are not contradictions. I have already said this before, it's a work-around.


I don't think you can see it from my perspective and perhaps I can't see it from yours. Our argument about LOGIC doesn't answer OP's question about bond between God and man. I am still very much interested in discussing the original topic. We are getting carried away with little details- some are completely irrelevant.

LOGIC still doesn't explain why one believes in God and one doesn't. This goes beyond logic. Perhaps something genetic/psychological?

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Peace Theorist

Thanks for the reply ...

You state that I refer to most of my decisions to be made by religion and that you don't and then what I do is not logical ... It is logical if you believe that your religion comes from God and that God knows you better than yourself and that God is the Most Wise and Loves us more than 70 mothers. I feel if this was the case I would use religion to help me form most if not all of my decisions.

You ask the question of same results by different means and why one should be wrong and the other right ... Well this can be tested ...

Let's say I didn't have any money in my pocket - I walked in to a Bank and walked out loaded with cash ... I did it this way:

a) Used my account debit card and made a withdrawal
b) I held up a gun and asked for money ...

Same results different ways ... I hope this point demonstrate that **BOTH **the means and the methods are important when it comes to our actions.

The next assertion is that "One does not need any guidance from a higher power to make sensible decisions"
- So now this is your claim that we can't answer until we have agreed on certain things ...

a) What is a sensible decision?
b) What is guidance?
c) How would we know guidance is being given or not given?

Let cut the chase and instead of asking ourselves the question of "how to screw in a light bulb" do we need guidance yes or no ... but let's talk about "driving a car" perhaps do we need "lessons?" - Or how about traffic lights - are they not guidance? Or street lights in the night time are they not guidance? In fact every piece of machinery that I can buy these days comes with some sort of instruction or guidance - how about taking medicine? Oh... the dosage information ... that is guidance ... isn't it? How about street maps? Satellite navigations systems, tutorials for software packages ... search engines .... discussion forums ...

I think it is sensible to conclude there are not very many things we do in life without guidance ... but then why faith? Why should we choose to resort to common sense when it comes to our lives and possible prospects of life's source itself ... "where did we come from? where are we going?" these questions cannot be answered by "common sense" ... if someone does then I question their intelligence (copyright - Theorist).

Regarding hijab - one cannot come to a conclusion regarding the basis of hijab - it is what the scholars have agreed upon that we accept ... Hijab is wajib in ALL schools ... however there are differences in what "hijab" itself is ...

The majority opinion states that it is a combination of attire and behaviour ... both of which need to be in place ... Showing the parts of our bodies that are luring and attract unhealthy attention is not considered hijab and more than making a display to draw attention if the body is fully covered ... the khimar is a scarf ... hijab is not an item of clothing. People falsely call the khimar a hijab these days.

Now despite this ... even these laws can be relaxed and tightened ... the reason is based on ijtehad ... of the circumstances ... now a person who is nearly goign to die and has a bacon sandwich next to him ... he can eat it ... to save his life ... although pork is haram in the general sense ... it becomes momentarily acceptable to eat it to serve another end. Some people fail to see this dynamic when they set-up Shari'ah law but in reality this is what is required.

Regarding polygamy - Islam recommends having only one wife - but it allows up to four - you question "why" ... this question is not a logical refutation as it does not show the fallacy of multiple wives ... however ... your refutation for it is that "today it is cruel and immoral" ... I fail to see how marrying a woman which involves promising to provide her shelter, money, clothing, comfort, sexual companionship and friendship is a cruel thing ... and if multiple wives is immoral then so is having one wife ... or are you saying that we have to follow standard that you want me to follow ... ??? And if so what is that standard? And where can I find it and see it for myself? And reflect on our earlier discussion regarding common sense ... why does common sense seem to evade us in such easy matters?

Regarding plagarism of our dear prophet Muhammad (SAW) ... simple request ... please prove he plagarised anything ...

Regarding the perfection of the Arabic - It is proof because it is scientific - one can analyse all languages and you'll find Arabic is simply mathematically brilliant ... What you said about Arabic being my perseption and not a reality then it proves how much you do not know especially about languages ...

Regarding contradictions - these are part of the study of logic ... definition - a thing can only be said to be in contradiction when

a) You have established it is the same thing
b) The same time
c) The same context

But you arrive at opposing conclusions ...

For example ... 500 horses went to the mayor's fair in 1811 vs 600 horses went to the mayor's fair in 1811 ... this is not a contradiction ... please explain why ... ???

You feel I can't see it from your perspective ... but the fact is I can ... It is due to the language of Arabic that enables me to see it from your perspective ...

The word is called "kufr" - means to deny or reject or cover or hide ... and this is basis from what you see ... you look for reasons to reject and when you find them you reject and that satisfies you ... even if those reasons themselves are not really reasons at all.

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Makes sense for a religious person. It doesn't apply to atheists/agnostics. We can't depend on Ifs and Buts to spend our life.

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You ask the question of same results by different means and why one should be wrong and the other right ... Well this can be tested ...

Let's say I didn't have any money in my pocket - I walked in to a Bank and walked out loaded with cash ... I did it this way:

a) Used my account debit card and made a withdrawal
b) I held up a gun and asked for money ...

Same results different ways ... I hope this point demonstrate that **BOTH **the means and the methods are important when it comes to our actions.

The next assertion is that "One does not need any guidance from a higher power to make sensible decisions"
- So now this is your claim that we can't answer until we have agreed on certain things ...

a) What is a sensible decision?
b) What is guidance?
c) How would we know guidance is being given or not given?
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a) What is a sensible decision? One that doesn't cause any harm to others and yourself
b) What is guidance? Intuition, learning from mistakes, seeing the consequences of one's actions. <These can be compared to a religious guidance while all other examples you have given have nothing to do with spiritual guidance.
c)Does it have to be given? Nope.

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Let cut the chase and instead of asking ourselves the question of "how to screw in a light bulb" do we need guidance yes or no ... but let's talk about "driving a car" perhaps do we need "lessons?" - Or how about traffic lights - are they not guidance? Or street lights in the night time are they not guidance? In fact every piece of machinery that I can buy these days comes with some sort of instruction or guidance - how about taking medicine? Oh... the dosage information ... that is guidance ... isn't it? How about street maps? Satellite navigations systems, tutorials for software packages ... search engines .... discussion forums ...
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All of the above cannot be compared to moral/spiritual guidance like I said.. If learning to be a good human being requires handwritten instructions/manuals like learning to perform a task then it's a pathetic excuse to be an intelligent being.

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I think it is sensible to conclude there are not very many things we do in life without guidance ... but then why faith? Why should we choose to resort to common sense when it comes to our lives and possible prospects of life's source itself ... "where did we come from? where are we going?" these questions cannot be answered by "common sense" ... if someone does then I question their intelligence (copyright - Theorist).
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Faith to me does NOT equal doing other things in life. Questions like "where did we come from? and where are we going" should be explored and we are doing just that. It is for this reason we have come so far!!!

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Regarding hijab - one cannot come to a conclusion regarding the basis of hijab - it is what the scholars have agreed upon that we accept ... Hijab is wajib in ALL schools ... however there are differences in what "hijab" itself is ...

The majority opinion states that it is a combination of attire and behaviour ... both of which need to be in place ... Showing the parts of our bodies that are luring and attract unhealthy attention is not considered hijab and more than making a display to draw attention if the body is fully covered ... the khimar is a scarf ... hijab is not an item of clothing. People falsely call the khimar a hijab these days.
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I bet you I can find at least one person on this very forum to disagree with you... My point is everyone has his/her interpretation of the Quran yet they all swear by what they believe. If this weren't true, you wouldn't have every religion split into different sects.

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Now despite this ... even these laws can be relaxed and tightened ... the reason is based on ijtehad ... of the circumstances ... now a person who is nearly goign to die and has a bacon sandwich next to him ... he can eat it ... to save his life ... although pork is haram in the general sense ... it becomes momentarily acceptable to eat it to serve another end. Some people fail to see this dynamic when they set-up Shari'ah law but in reality this is what is required.

Regarding polygamy - Islam recommends having only one wife - but it allows up to four - you question "why" ... this question is not a logical refutation as it does not show the fallacy of multiple wives ... however ... your refutation for it is that "today it is cruel and immoral" ... I fail to see how marrying a woman which involves promising to provide her shelter, money, clothing, comfort, sexual companionship and friendship is a cruel thing ... and if multiple wives is immoral then so is having one wife ... or are you saying that we have to follow standard that you want me to follow ... ??? And if so what is that standard? And where can I find it and see it for myself? And reflect on our earlier discussion regarding common sense ... why does common sense seem to evade us in such easy matters?
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One man should have one woman at any given time and vice versa. Logical enough? Anything else upsets the balance. If you talk of arrangements (food, shelter, sex, and bla blah provided), why can't a woman arange having kids, sex, cooking with multiple partners? These are excuses and nothing more. the truth is men could have any number women in the Dark Age (funny how it's called the Dark ages). The prophet "tried" to shrink the number but couldn't settle for just one partner. I don't even want to get into this..This was just an over simplied example. There ARE SOOO many more..

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Peace Theorist

It's funny but I didn't view you as a spiritual person ... I guess there is some understanding that you have shown towards my reasoning and I guess that is okay for me ... You didn't answer all of my questions but I guess I didn't satisfy yours ... in fact as per Qur'an "he who Allah guides none can misguide and he who Allah has allowed to stray none can guide"

By the way the contradiction question - the reason why they are not contradictions is because neither of the two amounts were restrictive ... If one of the conditions (propositions) stated that "ONLY 500 horses ... etc etc then it would have contradicted the other statement ... my point is that contradictions are hard to detect for the untrained mind and hence many people may see an error which in fact is not really an error.

As I said Islam does indeed favour one marriage ... but also monogamy was around in the Dark Ages - the Christian church requires monogamy. Also, today in this modern day and age the tribes in Africa still have polygamous marriages without any number restrictions. Also, in the West many men still consider it "trendy" to have a woman or two on the side ... the sad thing is in the West - those women on the side have no legal rights ...

Ultimately Islam is about giving up our egos and placing trust in Allah with our affairs ... this is not really that harmful a concept but I don't blame you not to desire Islam in this day and age when Muslims like me are awful people and the West seem to have all the progress, care and tolerance even ... May Allah (SWT) protect us from these confusing times.

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I don't know what it means to be a spiritual person. Maybe I am. I don't really know

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By the way the contradiction question - the reason why they are not contradictions is because neither of the two amounts were restrictive ... If one of the conditions (propositions) stated that "ONLY 500 horses ... etc etc then it would have contradicted the other statement ... *my point is that contradictions are hard to detect for the untrained mind and hence many people may see an error which in fact is not really an error. *
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This could be applied to any novel -fictional non fictional. Religious scriptures are very VAGUE. Hence, you see no contraditions, I do...

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As I said Islam does indeed favour one marriage ... but also monogamy was around in the Dark Ages - the Christian church requires monogamy. Also, today in this modern day and age the tribes in Africa still have polygamous marriages without any number restrictions. Also, in the *West many men still consider it "trendy" to have a woman or two on the side ... the sad thing is in the West - those women on the side have no legal rights *...
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Yeah, it's not just men, women do the exact same thing. The world's changing. :)

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Ultimately Islam is about giving up our egos and placing trust in Allah with our affairs ... this is not really that harmful a concept but I don't blame you not to desire Islam in this day and age when Muslims like me are awful people and the West seem to have all the progress, care and tolerance even ... May Allah (SWT) protect us from these confusing times.
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All religions ask us to place trust in god and I agree it is NOT a harmful concept at all. I said it in the very beginning: if faith keeps you from making bad decisions, it's a good thing. However, faith is not for everyone. I don't desire religion period. It doesn't make sense to me. I can't bring myself to believe in God, hell/heaven, angels/demon, etc etc..

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Theorist, I'm quite curious and wanted to know who/what you turn to when you face a difficulty? When everything seems so dark and there really seems no way out?

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:hmmm:

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She usually PMs me ..

J/k J/k

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You ruined my question. :naraz:

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I think about what I can do to resolve the problem. When that's not possible, I think about what I DO have and that makes me feel better.

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She opens a thread in Life1 when she faces a difficulty. If you do not believe me do a search for threads in Life1 by her.
She has not faced a extremely dark situation in life.
And I pray that she does not face that ever. Ameen. I also pray that may Allah show her the right path. Ameen.