What’s the connection between valentine’s day and this? I don’t get it.
But I agree with what you say regarding telling someone. I will only tell someone who I care for a lot and make them understand that. I’ve had the drinking conversation with a few people I am close to, but not in a preachy way, but more of try and stop this because it’s not good. But like you know, people hate being told what they can and can’t do. And there is only so much you can say without it getting to the point where feelings get hurt and animosity sets in. It’s a fine line.