I just had a meeting at work with this old man…he started telling how attracted he feels to dark colored women and that his wife is from the Phillipines…daaamn he was dreweling and giving me the look that I just felt naked and cud just shoot him…i was so pissed and just couldnt concentrate about the meeting…then he started talking abt my hijaab,islam and stuff like that…
he isnt a colleague so i cant get him fired over his abusive behaviour…warna jaan nahin chorni thi ghatiya insaan ki..he was an external consultant..am never gonna meet that B! agaiN!!!
It doesn't matter if he is just a consultant. As long as he is consulting in your company, you can still bring charges against him for harresment or misconduct.
chameli
- always use your hatyaar in these situations :D
I would go - i know eastern beauties are breath taking thank you. My mother is so pretty as well- so was my grand mother
or - My husband thinks the same thing as well. He thinks i am drop dead gorgeous girl - oh my daughter looks like me as well :D - they aways sort of go away then
these old men are sickos....I had some old italian creep at my work.....he told me one day at lunch that how he went out with some married pakistani girl a couple of years ago but the relationship fell apart because her husband found out and how i remind him of her. EW. i was so grossed out....never talked to him again
This happened when i was 17. My mom and i were shopping we got tired and went to this pizza shop for a slice of pizza. As we placed our order and went to sit in the dining area. The budha (owner of the shop) walks up to me and says out loud......while handing me a big silver dollar coin, " I only give these out to young pretty woman". Ammi and i looked at him in shock. He insisted i take the coin. I was hesitant and he left it on our table. Well, we had our pizza really quickly and left the shop. But, i started collecting coins after that and never went back in that shop again!
Can we give the man benefit of the doubt? Maybe he was just trying to make small talk. What's so wrong about giving woman a compliment? Girls should shed some light here since it is very confusing men. Does age matter? Are girls smart enough to know who is hitting on them and who is not?
While some men are a lil sick, there are women who are just too uptight. desi aurtain kuch zyada hi drama karti hain :-)
It depends on the compliment Fayz. If some old guy told me I looked like a glamour actress from the past, I would be ecstatic. Heck, it’s happened before.
