I suggest before you guys get involved in a is this accepted in Islam or not do some bloody reading.
http://www.bibliomania.com/2/1/74/121/frameset.html
That is the internet text of the perfumed garden written by Sheikh Nefzaoui. It is the Islamic version of the Kamasutra. Actually the translation is damn funny. But read it before. Just to point out to our resident fundos. Sex nor any act associated with it is NOT haram. It is our facted up culture that messes everything up. Now i gotta get back to work.
Edit: Forgot the bloody negation.
It is a pleasure to stand upon the shore, and to see ships tost upon the sea: a pleasure to stand in the window of a castle, and to see a battle and the adventures thereof below: but no pleasure is comparable to standing upon the vantage ground of truth . . . and to see the errors, and wanderings, and mists, and tempests, in the vale below.
[This message has been edited by CM (edited June 04, 2002).]