I guess she is holding some one accountable here - who swear'd directly to her - where in her post she didn't say anything abusive of that extreme nature !
so how come that would be unfair ....
no, im not holding anyone accountable here. I just needed to be little clear about the GS policy on abusing a fellow guppy/guppies. And its NOT whether one agrees or disagrees with another. Its about swearing and abusing not even the third persons and irrelevent ones, but the very fellow guppies, for whatever reason.
You don't look at the type of mud being splattered about - you look at the fact that mud is being splattered at all. And like I said, I think she's right in saying that things got out of hand - but the person she's aiming her remarks at wasn't the only guilty party. Shall I quote the abuse that others dished out as well? Whether the abuse was directed at a specific person or not - the words were very harsh (and BTW, maybe I'm not blameless either, so I will take responsibility if anyone was offended by my comments early on). Like TLK said, we all (I include myself) need to calm down and behave in a more responsible and dignified manner.
well said. I appreciate. (because you were not the one abused, LOL)
even that was not needed sir. I understand this is GS’ policy. Im too blind emotionally right now to appreciate this rightful favour of yours, sir. removed comments cant remove the hurt i felt. I didnt want any action to be taken either. I always thought we are a family, and i feel for all the guppies, including dear queer. we can disagree but abuses hurt. Much thanks anyway.
Ok, I hope Im done here. Thanks, the administration, and other posters here, (you opened my eyes) and those whose emotions are louder than their senses. thats really bad though.
^ thanks for the suggestion. Now since I have got the answer to my query, I request the mods to lock it here please, dont want any politics or division spill here. a big thanks to all anyway.
Mirage for god sake calm down. I understand that removed comments cannot removed the hurt feelings but the next option would be to punish queer for his potty mouth. If you tell me that punishing would take care of that then I will, but honestly. This works for repeat offenders and newbies. For people who are senior members, communication is the best solution, and that is why I sent you and him a PM.
Sir TLK..people keep calling me bejamaalo too…my feelings are hurt too…you never take any action against that..why?? …that too in the forums…where there are moderators…and all the ‘jurisdiction’ etc…
Mirage for god sake calm down. I understand that removed comments cannot removed the hurt feelings but the next option would be to punish queer for his potty mouth. If you tell me that punishing would take care of that then I will, but honestly. This works for repeat offenders and newbies. For people who are senior members, communication is the best solution, and that is why I sent you and him a PM.
Now could you please stop calling me sir.
I have all respects for you intact, and I mean it. You are much more than a GS Director only, for me. And believe me im calm now. I dont want queer to be banned at all. Im at peace with him. India Pak bhai bhai.
Lets end it here now, I have no complains whatsoever. chill out everyone.
…that too in the forums…where there are moderators…and all the ‘jurisdiction’ etc…
