Re: Blindfolded MIL
ask your fiance to talk to her. maybe she wants big 'mangani' party if thats the case she should go ahead and do it and why wait.
even though she likes you, is she still considering you as her DIL.
maybe after asking for your hand she doesnt want it to be offical or does not want it anymore.
i dont see any reason as to why she is not considering it as managni. maybe she has other plans for mangani/wedding or she doesnt want it anymore.