PSquared…people like Anna never seem to break out of their me, me, me bubble. Although years may have passed, seems like Anna is still in that mode.
The reason why we do want to hold on, in a way, is because we valued the friendship maybe more than they did. I know you said she was closer to yout than you to her but it still seems like you did alot for her.
I know I have given people numerous chances even though they have not deserved it; whilst they act like they have changed, they soon revert back to their own ways. However, people who give their life and soul into their friendships continue doing that. In a way it makes us feel as if what we have done in the past has not been for nothing.
I would definitely keep my distance from her. She might have been close to you at one point but time has moved on. Maybe the apology you got will provide you with some closure and from now on forth, you can be friendly to her but excessive meeting and spending time with her does not seem like a good option to me.
You can be friendly and civil to her. I think there is a time and a place for certain people in your life. Seems like her time has gone.
I know what I am trying to say but can’t convey it properly. Revision overload. Sorry