Why are they so aggrèssive? Most black girls I have known are always ready to pick fights. Guys on the hand are very nice but I have had very bad experience with this girl who I used to call my friend. She never accepts that she might be wrong or try to settle matters. I don’t want to generalise but they all loose their temper so quickly, I’ve tried to ignore her childish behaviour so many times but it has gotten ridiculous now and I have had black friends before from Kenya who were darlings but this girl’s crazy and has put me off from being friends with another one ever again because they tend to get violent and abuse you verbally.
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i've had the opposite experience than your, OP.
i avoided a few unpleasant situations while drving or in the mall parking lots. they seemtobe very aggressive and to some extent mouthy and bad-tameez. they always blamed me for discriminating against their skin color.
luckily, i do not have any black family in my neighbourhood and at work.
on the other hand, black girls and women interacted with me nicely. it's quite possible that they pick on their own gender. **
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Because ours is such a diverse society, everyone goes out of their way to behave nicely towards others and atleast look like they accept and acknowledge others. But I have seen that they (title) do blame you for discriminating against them even if you're in no position to do so. Being friends with someone is matter of personal choice and by default we are attracted towards those that look like us. I won't choose a gora over kala or vice versa. But black people I have known try to act like victims as if addat hai and then they are so aggressive and call you a lier when you tell them you have an ability to look past their skin color.
I don't want to generalise either, but people call us (muslims and pakistanis) terrorists, monsters and whatnot. I never even privately used to say anything against that girl I mentioned in the main post or any black person because these are sensitive matters but I have seen hell of a lot examples of their bad behaviour. So had to rant somewhere.
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Unless you in relationship.
This belong to gernal or cluture forum.
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Not met many black girls yet from tv that is the image they show. Obviously your friend is in the wrong here and obviously you deserve someone better. I know one black girl in my class who is very nice so background plays a role. I shouldn't generalise because I don't like being generalised either in forums. Don't let her put you off making other black friends. There is also lot of variation between different types of Africans. Just like they are variations in personality between different types of Pakistanis vs Indians. Good to rant it out though :)
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Unless you in relationship. This belong to gernal or cluture forum.
Friendship is a relationship. Might not be the biggest relationship but often the first relationship we have outside of family.people can make threads about hypothetical future children and rishtas, in laws so why not real life friendships? So Bella is perfectly right in posting here.
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Unless you in relationship. This belong to gernal or cluture forum.
Wait didn't you post a thread about girls maturing before boys? How is that a relationship thread? Or the one about future daughters?
Easy to criticise others for no reason but harder to see where we have done something similar.
No offence intended by the above :)
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Where did I criticize? I pointed towards appropriate forum in MY OPINION.
both threads you cite were in the context of maturity/preparedness for future relationships.
This thread title is about black girls generally - sans relationships.
or OP could chose to discuss this one particular subset of black girls - but she didn't.
PS: Stop getting pissed off and offended at other people's behalf.
People are perfectly capable of speaking for themselves. Uncle southie ki rooh ghuss gai hai kya? Not very good for you I must say. Calm your rescue.
No offence intended either.
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Ok sorry I should have said I disagreed with your opinion . I just expressed my opinion that I thought the topic was valid. I felt OP was talking about 1 black girl and asking if people had experiences with black girls who were similar.
Uncle Southie ki rooh? Aap hum ko jaanti hain?
No offence taken. I’ve just noticed previous threads with broad comparisons such as this one in this section. So I didn’t see issues with this thread. Good to see other races apart from subcontinentals being discussed.
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I have met lots of black chicks and they were all pretty friendly. Not like the ones you encounter behind a cash register ready to pick a fight. But I admit there are some who are biatches ...esp the ones in suburbs. Ones living in ghetto are quite friendly tbh
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^I've Alhumdolillah had more positive experiences with Black females than bad ones.
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Most are nice that I've come across. One is a Jamaican American and she's my friend, not close but we're getting there. There's one that I work with that acts like someone kicked her puppy or kicked her in that she's in a b*tchy mood all the time every day in a professional environment and she's only nice to people that are in a more senior position than her. She has years and years of experience and is a department by herself so the institute needs her. She's older than my mom but acts like a little child in first grade all the time. I wish I could be close to her but there are some people that as much as you adjust and try to change to get along with them just won't warm up to you and she is one of them. It's like she has an inferiority complex or something but i'm done analyzing why or trying to be better so she'll like me. I already have self confidence issues and then I have to deal with a person like her. Allah give me the tools to better deal with this whole thing with her.
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Thanks for providing evidence with your point 
I don’t mind where this thread goes on the forum as long as people can share their views.
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I have met lots of black chicks and they were all pretty friendly. Not like the ones you encounter behind a cash register ready to pick a fight. But I admit there are some who are biatches ...esp the ones in suburbs. Ones living in ghetto are quite friendly tbh
I used to think the same because we had a group of mix people but this one person is my padosi. She is always blaming me for lieing whenever something goes wrong, never tries to understand my position and give me benefit of the doubt though she called me her 'friend'. Yesterday she was barking so much and I flipped my finger at her to shut her up because even in fights I talk with calm voice and if a nutter is shouting so much and not listening to you they only understanding your hand gesture of gaali. Just a few days ago she was gonna end up in prison for having a dirty fight with a girl in town centre. She acts like such a hotshot and doesn't let you disagree with her without practically insulting your intelligence.
Not all girls are like that, as I mentioned I had good black friends at college and those who were trouble were always in other black groups. Uff as I am writing I feel like I am writing my own amaal nama to be shown on judgement, this is gheebat and even this is making me feel uneasy, because that's the kind of person I am. But this nutter has not learned a thing about me and doesn't give a hoot about our friendship. This is the 3rd time this girl has broken our relation and now its the end of it.
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i think you should demand an apology in writing from the black pope or whoever is the leader of all dem black peeps. enough is enough. time to take a solid stand. i'm right behind you.
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I used to think the same because we had a group of mix people but this one person is my padosi. She is always blaming me for lieing whenever something goes wrong, or tries to understand my position and give me benefit of the doubt though she called me her 'friend'. Yesterday she was barking so much and I flipped my finger at her to shut her up because even in fights I talk with calm voice and if a nutter is shouting so much and not listening to you they only understanding your hand gesture of gaali. Just a few days ago she was gonna end up in prison for having a dirty fight with a girl in town centre. She acts like such a hotshot and doesn't let you disagree with her without practically insulting your intelligence.
Not all girls are like that, as I mentioned I had good black friends at college and those who were trouble were always in other black groups. Uff as I am writing I feel like I am writing my own amaal nama to be shown on judgement, this is gheebat and even this is making me feel uneasy, because that's the kind of person I am. But this nutter has not learned a thing about me and doesn't give a hoot about our friendship. This is the 3rd time this girl has broken our relation and now its the end of it.
And yea, as you said, black people try to act like victims if something goes against their ideas. They start the entire pity party starting with slavery a century ago and how because of that they couldn't succeed in life and people like 'me' discriminate against them. Especially here in US, a lot of them (not my friends, just acquaintances) have a pretty nasty attitude. They think that since they are black, they can get away with it but that BS is not passing by anymore. A lot of them have been raised in a dysfunctional family with daddy issues. Thats why I don't talk back to a black man or woman in fear of escalation (unless I know the person).
And there are those who talks about Lord Jesus all the time ... they are a separate annoying bunch.
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Where did I criticize? I pointed towards appropriate forum in MY OPINION.
both threads you cite were in the context of maturity/preparedness for future relationships.
This thread title is about black girls generally - sans relationships. or OP could chose to discuss this one particular subset of black girls - but she didn't.
PS: Stop getting pissed off and offended at other people's behalf. People are perfectly capable of speaking for themselves. Uncle southie ki rooh ghuss gai hai kya? Not very good for you I must say. Calm your rescue.
No offence intended either.
I wasn't pissed off or offended just wanted to clarify my opinion. I've see other races mentioned in this section so I didn't see issues with black girls.
Sorry if I hurt your feelings. Probably shouldn't have said you were criticising.
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No problems. Fair enough it should not matter what forum it is on. Sometimes I speak too much. Probably I shouldn’t have been so critical.
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^I've Alhumdolillah had more positive experiences with Black females than bad ones.
Me too. Alhamdullilah.
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i think you should demand an apology in writing from the black pope or whoever is the leader of all dem black peeps. enough is enough. time to take a solid stand. i'm right behind you.
Lol, true queer
OP generalised all black girls and evidence presented in favour is behaviour of one black girl!! OP some catchup growth will do u good.