Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
Biwi say pocho.
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
Bivi ki har baat manni chahiye hai
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When you come back from the work in the evening, ask your wife how was her day then ask her if she needs any help in kitchen or with kids, bas itna hi ker liya jaye to woh bhi buhat hai.
They wait for you to come home so they can tell you things like "I feel so tired" or "I've had a long day" hoping you'd say, aww come here and give them a nice hug. They do not want advice or solutions when they're telling you about their day! So those men who tell their wives, "okay, quit your job then" stoppp it!
Women want to feel cherished. That's the bottom line. LISTEN to her, give her full attention, give her a few hugs a day. Make her feel loved. Then even if you forget to bring tomatoes/potatoes she'd get over it easily.
Wow ...... Now thats John Gray talking ........ am I right??????
well you and someone else talked about that book (Men are from Mars......)in some thread. I heard about this book so many times before but yesterday when two of you praised that book. I said enough, searched and downloaded the book (ebook). it seems quite interesting. could not go past 2nd chapter as it talks about resolving/avoiding conflicts in married life. And may be I am not willing to imagine those conflicting situations yet. :)
But thanks for that anyway.
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^ John Gray indeed. He’s a smart man, listen to him. 
If my husband does this, I’d be like 
Okay, so if you come and hug her, it would help with you feel better about your long day, as well! Plus you know the saying, biwi khush, shohar khush!
Tell wives to stop WHAT?
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Seedhi seedhi baat hai...manna hai to mano...nahin to mat kehna ke meine kuch kaha nahin.
A wife wants to feel like she is one of the most important things in her husband's life. Cuddling, holding hands etc is wonderful and meaningful but more then that is just the way you treat her. Try to leave your work at work and dont come home cranky and demanding. Do things with her, take her out, make dinner for each other (yes, men can cook too), etc. Have a dinner date once a month, read books together, take a class together, workout together, etc. This doesnt mean you have to spend every waking moment together but just examples of activities.
My sister and her husband are taking a class together in the evenings, I think thats adorable.
Bivi ko khush rakhoge to khud bhi bohot khush rahoge. Its just common sense!
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
just something someone sent me.. and made my day
This story tells us something about LOVE & LIFE
*My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. *
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
"Why?" he asked, shocked
"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him
And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind".
Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question. If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind. Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you do it for me?"
He said: "I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes....
My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me to explain the reasons further
This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face....
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... "
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting. .. And as I continue on reading... "Now, that you have finished reading my answer, and if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...
I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone...
That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form ...
Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... AND THAT'S LIFE
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
I had tears in my eyes reading this...so beautiful!
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^ yeah me too :) actually someone sent it to me and i hadnt read it.. but hubby saw it in my email and said to send it to him.. and after reading it.. he made me read it lol.. cus i was saying he needs to get me flowers.. haha
very true though...
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
wonderful excerpt, i would like to know about the resource plz.............i enjoy reading such thought-provoking texts.................WELL-QUOTED
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
by the way it is only LOVE AND ITS EXPRESSION wife needs off and on, as she is all the time busy in doing chores for the family and she wants sum fuel to run her and love is a sort of re-fill the husbands should do. it also is free of cost and never runs out. so,plz express concern and talk in a polite manner with ur wife, she will listen to ur criticism as well if u talk in a loving manner. try it, it surely works.......
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
It depends upon what kind of biwi you got then you have to deal according to that.
Bhooki biwi
Aisi biwiaan sadion ki bhooki ki tarha her waqt khanay ki farmaish karti hai.
Lalchi biwi
Aisi biwiaan her waqt mangti rehti hain kuch bhi.
Paison ki bhooki biwi
Aisi biwiaan her waqt paison ki demand karti hain aur chori say bhi baaz nahen ateen.
Logon ki Barabri karnay wali biwi
Aisi biwiaan jis ghar main jo bhi kuch daikhain wo unko bhi ghar main hahyay hota hai lar' jhagar' kay bhi ya kuch karna par'ay.
Shopping ki dildada biwi
Aisi biwiaan her waqt shopping kar kar kay shohar kay account ka naas marti rehti hain aur credit card mil jaay to kia kahna.
Hutdharam biwi
Aisi biwiaan shohar ki kuch naheen sunti her haal main apna chalati hain.
Many more types are out there.
Her tarha ki biwi ko khush rakhnay ka bahtareen nuskha mulahiza farmain.
Job say aakar shohar ko ghar ki safai karna chahyay, bartan aur kapray dhona chahyay.
Khana paka kar na sirf khud khaay balkay biwi ko bhi paish karay.
Buchchon ki daikh bhaal kay saath saath un kay saray kaam karay.
Office say daily wapsi par phool zaroor laay.
Ghar ponhach kar is tarha galay lagay Jaisay sadion kay bichr'ay huway milaay hon.
Biwi jis bhi huliaay main ho us kay tareefon kay itnay pul bandhay kay sari dunia kay pul kum par' jain.
Us kay haath paon dabaay raat ko sonay say pahlay.
Daftar janay say pehlay kahay "ZIL E Ilahi hukm kijaay aap kay liaay wapsi per kia laya jaay".
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^^^ Some Amil/Najoomi Baba’s agent persuading potential customers (husbands) ??? Just a promise of a magical fix is missing.
just something someone sent me.. and made my day
This story tells us something about LOVE & LIFE
*My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. *
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce. "Why?" he asked, shocked "I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him
And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind".
Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question. If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind. Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you do it for me?"
He said: "I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes....
My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me to explain the reasons further This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. "When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face....
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... "
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting. .. And as I continue on reading... "Now, that you have finished reading my answer, and if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...
I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone...
That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form ...
Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... AND THAT'S LIFE
Just reminded me of 'chicken soup for the soul' kind of books. A well written fantacy and dramatization at best to get the expected emotional results.
Having said that, I must say
"Biwi Hay saath woh karna chahiye Jo Biwi Ko Achaa lagay."
Ghar main Sukoon Hoga Inshallah taala! (Chai smiley kahan Hai?)
sorry to say but i have felt ur heart-ache which mostly STINGY AND TIGHT-FISTED husband portray. dear can u reply that where is THIS INNER SELF wen bfore marriage the fiancees show that they are the best shopping lovers and they do not forget even the single moment of gifting.
they are the ones who display themselves as the best money spenders of the world. wives are justified in spending as it were the husbands who lavishly spend money bfor marriage and didn’t bother for borrowing money just for the sake of impression and by the way why do husband earn? there should b a balance maintained b/w earning and spending otherwise the husband would get over-balanced!!!
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so beautiful 
Re: Biwi keysaath kiya kerna chahiye
Tango!