there is guy that all of us would kinda run away from and till now i didnt even know why i didnt like him..i mean i didnt even know him but the fact that he was gay didnt help much..but this semester i see more of him n he has a class with a very good friend of mine so hes around us alot. But the more he hangs out with us the more i realize we were so wrong for not liking someone because of thier errmm gayness…do u guys feel weird around ppl like that?
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haha.. u have interesting friends. i had a gay friend gora in high school.. to tell u the truth they are really sweeeet and it used to be fun checking out guyz with them :D
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gays are not the same as bis. And feeling weird around something or someone out of the ordinary is not surprising. It's a natural human tendency to be scared and cautious of something which isn't what we have labelled "normal". We have always misunderstood people with certain abnormalities( I use abnormal as in deviation from the normal). Forget sexual orientation, people even get cautious if they know a person eats his cereals without milk. Deviation from the norm is hard to accept, which should not be the case. An open mind is always a good thing.
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Don't judge someone on sexual preference. It is just another form of racism. Just the way people discriminate against us due to religion and practice, we do the same to homosexuals.
Now i am not condoning homosexuality. What is wrong is wrong. But let Allah decide and judge mere mortals. Not us.
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Having gay friends is like having a personal fashion assistant.
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I have two lesbians friends. Thank god I am a lesbian too.
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I made a lot of friends.
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thank you. i completely agree, CM
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One of my best high school friends was bisexual - or well, at least she was experimenting with it.
When we found out, we were just in so much shock, because she was so openly boy-crazy. I think it was actually for attention that she decided to go bi for a while. Our friendship terminated soon after (not because she was bi but because she was a senseless doggy on a leash...long story), and last I heard she's just recently married. Probably has a kid by now.
It did make me feel awkward to tell you the truth, and the rest of the girls as well. But once we got it cleared up that she wasn't into desi girls, we let it go. :D
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^^ What if she was into desi girls? She was experimenting, what if some desi girl wanted to experiment?
P.S What is Islamic punnishment fora bi/homo (apply to both femal/male).
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Does it mean that you start liking him? 
even though you know he is gay 
ok come on gays LOVE guys ok 
now if you are feeling pity for him then i will say you are wrong… all the world knows that being gay is BAD …so come on why is he gay then 
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hmm gays and lesbians are jsut as human as we are... they dont have germs.. treat them equally i say :)
in the last 7 years, ive had two gay managers and a gay colleague.. they're pretty funny when it comes to clothes and guys..
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Verizon, if she was into desi girls, I'd have bluntly pointed at myself and asked "are you into THIS desi girl". Hopefully she'd say no, and we'd still be in the clear, just I'd be more wary. If she said yes, then I would have to tell her to stop her garbage rebellion mode and stick with her idiotic boyfriend. At worst I would have terminated the friendship, honestly, on that basis.
Oh, for that go to religion forum - thats another debate all of its own.
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^ damn straight girl...let her go for other girls..u shud just stick with ur roomate
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umm..i had someone like that in one of my classes in college....and it was like i always used to pull all nighters in the computer lab and there were a couple of ppl from my class who used to pull all nighters...so we all kinda bonded...and he was one of those people...at that time i dint know he was "that"
well...he was a really nice and sweet guy and really helpful as well...
i was once discussing american society with him... [at that time i dint know he was that]...and i was like "there r some things abt american society that r just so WRONG"...and i was like u know how they r promoting same gender marriages and stuff...he didnt say anything...
then many days later someone else told me he was that...and i felt so hecka bad...
i just felt sad for him that he had to be that...i wished he would become normal...the knowledge of him being that didnt affect my relationship with him in the sense that i'd still discuss stuff with him and talk to him if i saw him outside class and stuff...
he was a really smart guy...i think what messed him up in that regard was that his parents had a really terrible relationship...i think that was the major facotr behind why he became that...
thats the only experience i have with a person of that realm
i reckon though that if i knew from before that he was that then i might have had prejudices in my mind but since i was friends with him BEFORE i found it, it was normal...
i never actually talked to him abt it...our talks mostly revolved around school work, american society, japan (he had taken a semester in japan) and he told me some stuff abt his family and his future plans...
but now i wish i did talk to him abt this...i wish i'd explained to him that its not anything biological but a psychological sickness that he shud try to overcome...
God bless him though, he was a sweet person
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gays make absolutely wonderful girlfriends… they’re girls minus all the bitchyness and attitude
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Actually gay people are really funny...but today there was this gay guy and he goes my boyfriend cheated on me...I felt so weird hearing those words. I know they are gay, but I don't need to hear details.
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fondness of that may be the cause…
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mazabi lehaz sai i have a problem with homo's but personally i have no problem with them. i certainly wouldn't miss treat them or make them feel unwelcome becoz they aren't hetros'...
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A co-worker who also used to be a fellow senator at the Uni's SGA was gay. He was too shy around guys, so I only get to know him at work when he had to sit in those stupid long meetings. Other than his apparent shyness, he was pretty much like any other guy .. maybe his taste in movies & lack of interest in football would make him different.
He moved to Atlanta for better social life.