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v nice to hear love...
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Aww sweet!
Hope it all works out for you 
Inshallah
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hey bekk, if you every have doubts again do ISTAKHARA.... Allah will guide you.. its the best option.... it will make everything clear... hope you have a happy life girly, take care, all the best... may Allah give you a harmonious life...
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Salam
Tnx for all replies.
I have talked to my fiance and tnx to Allah the problem is solved.
He have not been suffering by depression. He had some severe stomack pain. Coz he didnt tell about this pain openly, we believed on what we heared from here and there. This created a big misunderstanding. He has been shy until now, but he has opened himself the last days. Im getting to know him better. I`m now calm and believe I will be happy after wedding. InshAllah.
Shukar Alhumdulillah
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oh i am so glad to hear that it is working out for you! may allah make ur marriage happy and succesful!!
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First of all you gotta know that there are many types of different people in the world.... Now if a person is shy, a bit conservative, doesnt speak much , and is a perfect stranger as well..what else would you expect...?? You've gotta understand that if you'r goin for arrange marriage than you have to expect somethings , things do get changed to some extent once these type of people get married. Now maybe if you are outspoken, talkative, outgoing that may seem to be odd for other people the same way... so adjusting and understanding of the other person's nature is very important instead of just being self-centered. How things gonna work out after marriage depends on both the husband and wife, but if you are honest in a relationship than atleast you can sleep at night without any regrets.
I dont understand why people first get engaged and than start communicating with each other. But if you at this stage think that it may become difficult for you in future to adjust than take your decision now of what is better for both you and him. Best of luck.,... Have a lovely life... May all your wishes n dreams be fulfilled.
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aww glad it worked out