Re: Big dilemma!
Bekk i agree with most ppl that you really shouldn't rush into this thing unless ur 100% certain that it's what you want........my cousin a couple of yrs ago went through almost the same situation......she married a guy that wasn't really talkative and she really likes talking you can't shut her up for 2 seconds lol...........anyways she married him figuring that once they got married things would get better, she kept telling everyone that ppl open up more after marriage and it would be the same for him i think she was trying to convince herself more than anyone else cuz i know her really well and i know she wasn't 100% for this marriage.........so in the end well after like 1 yr of marriage she couldn't take it any more cuz she told me that even after that whole year he really wouldn't open up to her and it was the same with her just giving her a yes or no answer and never really initiating convo, and sadly they ended up getting a divorce.........so the point of this was that you should really get to know the guy before you marry him and since he won't open up to you you're going to have the initiate that convo and tell him how you feel and see what his reaction is on it, and yes definetely involve your parents in this and maybe they can talk to his parents about it or something............goodluck with your decision just pray to Allah that he will guide you in making the right decision :)