Big deal or no?

[Mirch]

Re: Big deal or no?

@PyariCgudia

Oddly enough, you’d have learned enough about that person, and you’d probably be head over heels in love with them.

I think we desis approach marriage the wrong way. It’s not a job application you should be submitting. You should sit down, talk to the person, and see if you have any understanding with them.

I learned this the hard way. Guys that on the first get go, I would not have given a second look to have turned out to be some of the best men I’ve met, and … vice versa…guys who look like they have the best profile on paper…can be TOTAL crud to talk to.

So, my prediction would be that you’d look past it and move on. Humans are always in flux. Religious today, not so tomorrow. Not so religious today, tomorrow your spouse is doing tableegh, and you’re like where the heck did this come from?

We need to stop thinking of each other as pieces of papers with checkboxes. Worst approach ever.

I am impressed the first time with one of your posts. Would you marry my son ? He is only 16 and needs a mentor , my mentoring is not working on him.