bhabi issue

[Theorist]

Re: bhabi issue

@Mamzie

She needs to grow up! Maaf kar dena is a good thing esp when an elder has apologized to you so many times. Old people can be set in their ways and like you said in your chachi’s case that she is not a bad person so your bhabhi needs to loosen up a bit.

Even for phupo, its not a big deal! Log is se buhat zyada baate kar lete hai, doesnt mean you stoop to a lower level and not even say your salam dua. Don’t forget people, salam is done for Allah and you are basically fulfilling your human rights. To make a marriage cimfortable, both sides need to make huge sacrifices…your bhabi should be doing nothing in comparison if she lets go of her ego and keep salam dua with her husband’s familiy like any sane adult should.

I agree that she should get over it. However, everyone’s comfort level is different. You cannot make someone behave a certain way. She probably finds it very uncomfortable to face them again thinking they must always be judging her.