as the matter progress, now the wife is in dilemma.
accroding to her, she have forgiven. Now her confusion is whether to forget his betrayal or forget his love?
both are just as difficult.
she either needs to forget his betrayal and start afresh with him.
Or forget his love and move away from him.
as for her kids, considering that kids from broken homes are da norms in society now, leaving him is not an issue.
At da same time, she’s finding it difficult to forget the 5-6 years of their life together.
wat wud u do?
should i advise her to spent some time away from each other? wud that help?
That is an utterly sick and disgusting way to be thinking. Just because there are more kids from broken homes does not mean that kids don’t benefit from 2 parents!
Without a male role model at home her kids will be looking elsewhere, and not neccessarily in good places, for their male role models.
If the guy did not physically cheat on her, she should be prepared to forgive. Only if she knows that he physically cheated should she think about leaving!
cheating is cheating. it doesnt matter if its emotional or physical, it can still leave you feeling low and its devastating. she needs to figure out what her limits are- how far would he have to go for her to completely say, thats it. its over. the fact that shes questioning what to do, instead of having left him right away, is maybe a hint that she wants to work it out? they should talk. definitely, they need to sit down and discuss all their options. what happens if he stays, what happens if he goes, what does he need to do to make sure it never happens again etc.