What’s the best way to let go/break up with someone & don’t feel so hurt?
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The best way is to let go someone is with best of wishes and disconnect all the contacts with that person. And whetha ya like it or not..this will hurt but eventually ya'll get through it. Look at it like deep wound. It takes time to heal wounds. And that is how human beings are created. I am speaking from experience yo!..
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go *'cold turkey' *... jus break all means of communication!
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And ya will remember all the good times ya had all that stuff. But yo!..take it as test and just focus more on ya're self. Sometimes what we think is good for us..it is not good for us. Also what helps is..talking to ya're friends yo! and be more outgoing.
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Nice advice from X & K men
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Watch him every day of your life, and only be reminded how you weren't good enough for him.
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^I think this is very unpractical and wrong way of looking at things. Just cut off all the contact yo.
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What!? 
I agree with the fellas. The best thing you can do for your self (mentally) is to remove all forms of contact all together. If possible, don’t leave any room to be able to even mistakenly contact again. Especially the act of, say, deleting a contact from ur phone or deleting off fb.. ect. (Feels good and reassured that you did the right thing/ made the right decision. :D)
Ending things on good terms are always good, as well. Where as ending stuff out of the blue or with a fight will leave a lot of open ended feelings and emotions, which will cause either your or the other person to drift back.
It’s hard to say there wont be any feelings hurt… …
And the most important… always stay stay strong and remind your self of WHY the decision you made was a good decision for YOU. 
I hope this is an example of what not to do… 
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haahahah PCG! that cracked me up. I know of girls who do exactly that.
You know I don't have much experience with this, but breaking all connections is sometimes not the answer. Even if you physically get rid of someone from your life, it doesnt mean they are out of your mind. Best thing would be to involve yourself in other things that interest you - sports, go to the gym and do those fun classes they offer, pick up something you like to do. It will take your mind off.
And lastly, never ever forget that you happen to be among one of the many fortunate people in the world because hell, people in this world are really suffering.
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pinkyy: Remember, you had life before this guy. I would suggest you to involve in good activities. Remove him from your social profile and email list, phone list. Stop thinking about him. I also recognize your pain of attachment, but once you avoid all established means of communication and later in your life you will never regret it and will thankful to us of saving your life from that horrible guy. InshaAllah, you will get a nice guy. Aameen
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Ispaghula Husk
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Its what im having to do everyday. Boy does it work .
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What's the best way to let go/break up with someone & don't feel so hurt?
The reality is that nobody is stopping you from getting over the guy.....except you. It's all a matter of making decisions and sticking to them. You make the decision to move on......and whether it's a firm decision or a flimsy one depends upon you. You can choose to cut all contact with him and leave no door open for him to reach you or you can remain in touch and risk getting hurt even more. You have the power to either dwell on thoughts about him....or redirect your thoughts toward something else. You have the power to either sit in your room and lament over him....or you could keep yourself busy. And in the back of our minds....we all know this. Maybe the fact that the solution is so straightforward is why it's uncomfortable to accept...it's like medicine you know you need to take but don't feel like doing so. It would be easier if emotions turned off like a light switch, but they don't, so you have to persist in making the effort. As cliche as it sounds...with time, it does get better. Best wishes with moving on and finding someone more compatible.
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This has been said before, but RV has a very good brain inside the head on her shoulders.
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burn the boat.
btw, you can not move on until you have decided to move on and if you have, you will without asking around…
boat: phone no, email add, old communications etc etc
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This has been said before, but RV has a very good brain inside the head on her shoulders.
Hear hear. She will be an excellent counsellor / psychologist.
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Stop talking to him...go cold turkey. Its the only way.
If really want to get over him...do it. No one is stopping you.
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You can put all the good thoughts in your 'mind' and easily convince it, but it is in the nature of the 'heart' to continue yearning for something it has once developed an attachment with. The heart rarely listens to the logics/ reasonings of the mind.
The only solution is to dial 222 and call the CREATOR of the heart, who claims that all the HEARTs are in HIS control.
2 = Two O'clock at night
2 = Two Rakah Salat-ul-Hajah
2 = Two drop of tears
As the Quran says "ALA BIZIKRILLAHI TATMA INNAL QULUB" translation: *no doubt the heart finds peace only in rememberance of ALLAH
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**When the heart weeps for what it has lost, the soul smiles for what it has found. (Connection with ALLAH, as no one can console your heart better than HIM)
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