So. Some advice needed. I have two wonderful best friends. One I have known for about 4 years- we went to uni together and were always like sisters. She then got married and the wife of one of her hubby’s friends did whatever she could to effectively ruin our friendship. And it worked. We didn’t speak for a year and now Igot engaged recently and she congratulated me and apologized and we are now back to being closer than ever. We call each other for advice etc at any hour of the day or night and I truly consider her to my big sister.
Now during the one year I was not talking to bestie no.1, i was introduced through mutual friends to anothergirl. We have so much in common ( we even look similar!) and we quickly became inseparable. It will be almost 2 years that SHE has been my best friend and sister too. Now these two girls met briefly once a couple of weeks back at a mutual friend’s party (i was invited but unable to go). According to bestie no.1, bestie no.2 was not overly friendly. According to bestie no.2, it was wonderful to meet bestie no.1 and they were both eagerly discussing my wedding and getting excited.
My issue now is that I dont want either one to feel excluded. Both are very important parts of my life and both have been there for me through some very difficult times in my life. Bestie 1 and I made plans to have dinner on Friday night…my ques is do I also invite bestie no.2? Me and her havent caught up in a few weeks and during that one year that bestie 1 and i were not talking it was always bestie 2 and me on Friday nights catching up. Or is it a bad idea to introduce them properly?