I just need other people’s opinion for a few questions!!
How would you feel if your best friend told you that you cant come to my house with your fiancee if my parents are not home?
Would you end your friendship with her or what?
How would you react if your best friend tells you to make her fiancee a part of everything that you do together just because she feels inseparable from him? Would you accept it or not?
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Is the refusal of entry due to not liking the fiance, social taboo or religious beliefs?
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a bit confusin , u cnt go to her house wid ur fiance or she cnt cum to ur house wid her fiance wen ur parents are nt at home ..
also if she feels dt inseparable from him u shud let her hang out wid him she will gt over it very soon.lolz
also y wud d fiance wnna hang out wid 2 gurls in d 1st place
i personally dont bleev in dis best frend thing coz no one is ur best frend , frends dont stay wid u forever just like she is provin to u now she has found her life partner , but dont end ur frendship
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a wise man once said of relationships, let go ur ego but stick to ur principles ;)
personally i wouldn't take my fiance if i was going to meet a girlfriend unless he was driving me a great distance just so i could meet her. and if so, i'd ask her beforehand if it was ok to bring him along... but only if there was a comfortable friendship between my fiance and my friend. i certainly wouldn't take offence or end the friendship if she wasn't comfortable around him.
it's easy for someone to feel hurt when they perceive that u're rejecting their fiance... but u need to make it clear that the reason for ur refusal isn't personal, but socio-religious (i'm assuming that is the reason). this is where ur principles kick in... and if the reason isn't socio-religious, then u have to consider if u're being unfair.
good friends are hard to come by.. if she's being silly or irrational at the moment, u take it cool and give her some time to see reason.
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ahmadjee: As Nimko said, let's say it's socio-religion and a lil bit of not being comfortable around a guy that you just know as your "friend's fiancee."
mizzrani: first of all I would diagree taht you cant have best friends, you sure can.. it's just another level of friendship while keeping in mind that friends are not there forever but you just get along better with your "best" friend than the others! It may not make any sense to you, but it does to me!
I guess I will just give her some time until she wakes up and realizes that there is more in the world than a "guy."
Nimko: You just hit the nail right on the head.. now only if she will understand the reason behind whatever I said to her!
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u cant end friendship like dat and if ur friend is offended by u caz u r not allowing her to bring along her finance u need to be patient with her .it may be caz she s very much in love or just over - sensitive about him. but if she doesnt realize it ova a long period of time , she s certainly not ur good or best friend. but i m sure she ll understand , its a matter of understanding . also wats between girlfriends shud remain dat way. dats waht i think
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hello gtg, hope u r okay. :)
How would you feel if your best friend told you that you cant come to my house with your fiancee if my parents are not home?
fine by me...what does my fiance have to do with her anyway. And I wouldn't bring my fiance to MY house either when parents aren't around.
Would you end your friendship with her or what?
itni choti si baat pe end a friendship..no way!
How would you react if your best friend tells you to make her fiancee a part of everything that you do together just because she feels inseparable from him? Would you accept it or not?
He can't be a part of 'everything' but he can be a part of our gatherings and come to our house when my husband is around.
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wwhy dont people take people as people and not as only opposite genders?
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yurut: I agree!
richi4u: ?
CA: 
long time no see!!I do think that she is being immature and is taking things too seriously but I guess it happens to everyone.. you just become too sensitive about your relationship and if your friend disaproves anything, it hurts! oh well, I may talk to her again about it but if it doesn’t work then probably it’s over!
case study: because it is very clearly stated in our relgion and society to keep a distance between opposite genders.. there isn’t any if’s n but’s!! Besides that, the query is regarding the relationship and friendship not “if you should mingle with teh opposite sex or not.”
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dis is a girlish question 