Best age to get married?

[Mezhgan]

Re: Best age to get married?

@Sara516

I got married at 21. I’m 29 now, still no kids. Guess my life is doomed for misery.

Seriously, ppl act like they know everything they haven’t experienced an iota of. The thinking is that young people are more flexible (or submissive, whatever), but…when life doesn’t go exactly as planned, they go nuts. where’s the flexibility then eh?

Not only that, but it’s not accurate to say that young people are more flexible. Young people can be even more inflexible out of immaturity. Immaturity and the youthful arrogance of “I am always right, so it’s my way or the highway” make people quite inflexible. People who have no real life experience, which would be most young people, tend to be hard headed. I’m 24 and I’ve noticed this type of behaviour in people in my age group.

While there may also be obtuse people in their late 20s, I’ve noticed that, by that age, most people have a bit of life experience, have experienced setbacks and as such, let go of the delusion that they are always right and are more open to compromise.